Well, the time has come. I was busy all day long packing up the truck and trailer, and will leave first thing in the morning.
It seems that the time went by so quickly, but when I think of all that was accomplished I know I couldn't have done that overnight.
All my work with Will and Lily has paid off considering the fact that they both loaded right up and on when I asked them to step up into the trailer this afternoon for a test run. :)
My time here in Florida, my first winter here, will be remembered for the rest of my life. I proved to myself that given a little space and peace, I can accomplish a lot.
I'll head home with a newfound peace and a feeling of excitement about the upcoming summer. Family, friends and horses. I'm also looking forward to getting my driving team restarted.
The people in Florida are friendly and helpful and it's easy to feel at home here. I've made some great friends.
I know I'll be back here next January.
I want to thank all of you who followed my journey. I did this blog mainly for myself, but it felt wonderful to know you were there with me every step along the way wishing me well.
Virginia, here I come. :)
A three month time period away from home and family to immerse myself in horsemanship. Oh... and also, to be WARM. :)
Wednesday, March 28, 2012
Tuesday, March 27, 2012
Not long now.
Wow, I've been busy boxing up the house and some stuff in the barn. Tomorrow will be a really busy day getting all the last stuff in my trailer.
Yesterday, I went to see another prospect place for next winter. It's wonderful. The woman is alone and has 25 acres. The farm is kept up well and the apartment in the barn is very spacious and really nice and clean. There's even a dishwasher.
But even better is the fact that she's only got four small horses and there's plenty of pasture! It's quiet and safe, (you have to come through a gate with a code), and I think I'll get along with her very well. Even though I won't need to work for her I think I'll try to help her in many ways. She lost her husband to cancer and has no family other than a brother that lives in another state. She isn't doing so great health wise and has good days and some bad days.
She's a little eccentric but kind. And she loves animals. Me too.
So it'll cost me a little more than it did this year but it's worth it. I feel very lucky that I can pay a deposit and have them hold it for me for next Jan-April. She's not far from HITS so I was so happy my eye caught the add the second day it was on the internet. Trust me, her place would be very poplular. :) So I'm all set.
Today, I had a vet come out and give my horses their traveling papers. No glitches there.
Then I went for my third and final golf lesson. Awesome, that's all I can say. From now on, practice, practice, practice. I'll miss that guy.
My landlady invited me out this evening for dinner at a really good pizza place. She wanted to pay for dinner because of all the work I'd done for her this winter, but I insisted that I pay.
Yes, I've worked, but she has no idea what she did for me this winter.
By offering her place to me, she got me away from my own farm and the responsibilities that wore me down at times.
I also was able to take care of myself, eat right and get strong. And, after weighing in this morning, I've lost 20 pounds.
My horses have lost their fat bodies and look amazing. Will now has straight legs thanks to Jim Crew. My horses have a true connection with me and it makes me cry.
Being alone here has brought my mind peace and harmony so that I can face my regular world with a newfound happiness.
So.......................... this winter has been a very, very, good thing.
So, I thanked my landlady..... big time.
Yesterday, I went to see another prospect place for next winter. It's wonderful. The woman is alone and has 25 acres. The farm is kept up well and the apartment in the barn is very spacious and really nice and clean. There's even a dishwasher.
But even better is the fact that she's only got four small horses and there's plenty of pasture! It's quiet and safe, (you have to come through a gate with a code), and I think I'll get along with her very well. Even though I won't need to work for her I think I'll try to help her in many ways. She lost her husband to cancer and has no family other than a brother that lives in another state. She isn't doing so great health wise and has good days and some bad days.
She's a little eccentric but kind. And she loves animals. Me too.
So it'll cost me a little more than it did this year but it's worth it. I feel very lucky that I can pay a deposit and have them hold it for me for next Jan-April. She's not far from HITS so I was so happy my eye caught the add the second day it was on the internet. Trust me, her place would be very poplular. :) So I'm all set.
Today, I had a vet come out and give my horses their traveling papers. No glitches there.
Then I went for my third and final golf lesson. Awesome, that's all I can say. From now on, practice, practice, practice. I'll miss that guy.
My landlady invited me out this evening for dinner at a really good pizza place. She wanted to pay for dinner because of all the work I'd done for her this winter, but I insisted that I pay.
Yes, I've worked, but she has no idea what she did for me this winter.
By offering her place to me, she got me away from my own farm and the responsibilities that wore me down at times.
I also was able to take care of myself, eat right and get strong. And, after weighing in this morning, I've lost 20 pounds.
My horses have lost their fat bodies and look amazing. Will now has straight legs thanks to Jim Crew. My horses have a true connection with me and it makes me cry.
Being alone here has brought my mind peace and harmony so that I can face my regular world with a newfound happiness.
So.......................... this winter has been a very, very, good thing.
So, I thanked my landlady..... big time.
Saturday, March 24, 2012
Big event, Big rental, Big rain.
The big event was the Live Oak International. It was a USEF Four In Hand National and Gran Prix Jumping SCI 2* competition.
After chores this morning, I cleaned up and spent most of the day at the event sitting by the water hazard. Awesome how some of the big timers can negotiate through that stuff. The horses seem to be so well trained. Well, I thought that until I started watching the prelims...... I felt a little sorry for most of those ponies and horses. The drivers just don't seem to be experienced enough to not shout at their horses continually and not jerk them around.
But still, it was a fun day.
AND... while I was there I discovered a vendor that had harnesses, etc........and they were practically from my own back yard in Virginia! I'd never heard of the business but the woman is going to come to my house in a couple of weeks and help me measure my team. :)
This evening I went to a couples place about five miles away as a prospect for next winters getaway. They have 25 acres and the apartment over the barn is quite spacious and really cute. The place is not a dump but some of the fences are in need of a little attention.
The couple that own it work and go to school so I can see why they might not be caught up with things. There are a few Appaloosas on the place, but not overrun by any means. Lots of grass and I'd have a very large pasture all to myself with stalls if I need them.
We'll see. I'm going to look at another place on Monday.
About the time I got back to my current rental it was starting to rain, so I donned my rain gear and went to feed my horses.
Just as they finished and I put the buckets away, it started to thunder and lightning so I skitted to the house pretty quickly and it poured down like mad.
But it didn't last very long and things are quiet outside now.
I think I'll sleep in tomorrow morning. I just feel a little tired.
(That's so weird that I seem to feel tired on the days that I don't work hard... what's up with that!?)
After chores this morning, I cleaned up and spent most of the day at the event sitting by the water hazard. Awesome how some of the big timers can negotiate through that stuff. The horses seem to be so well trained. Well, I thought that until I started watching the prelims...... I felt a little sorry for most of those ponies and horses. The drivers just don't seem to be experienced enough to not shout at their horses continually and not jerk them around.
But still, it was a fun day.
AND... while I was there I discovered a vendor that had harnesses, etc........and they were practically from my own back yard in Virginia! I'd never heard of the business but the woman is going to come to my house in a couple of weeks and help me measure my team. :)
This evening I went to a couples place about five miles away as a prospect for next winters getaway. They have 25 acres and the apartment over the barn is quite spacious and really cute. The place is not a dump but some of the fences are in need of a little attention.
The couple that own it work and go to school so I can see why they might not be caught up with things. There are a few Appaloosas on the place, but not overrun by any means. Lots of grass and I'd have a very large pasture all to myself with stalls if I need them.
We'll see. I'm going to look at another place on Monday.
About the time I got back to my current rental it was starting to rain, so I donned my rain gear and went to feed my horses.
Just as they finished and I put the buckets away, it started to thunder and lightning so I skitted to the house pretty quickly and it poured down like mad.
But it didn't last very long and things are quiet outside now.
I think I'll sleep in tomorrow morning. I just feel a little tired.
(That's so weird that I seem to feel tired on the days that I don't work hard... what's up with that!?)
Thursday, March 22, 2012
A GREAT DAY!
This morning I got up early and got the chores done so I could go to a place that gives carriage rides. I didn't go to actually go on a drive, but I'd made arrangements to talk to the handlers and owner to get as much information as I can because I'll be starting my driving team when I get home.
They were super friendly and helpful and I learned how to measure for collars and also for harnesses.
The handler, Kim, was getting the horses and carriage ready because a small group were expected. They arrived early and I helped Kim pull the wagon up and watched very closely as she hooked up.
The owner walked up and suggested that I go on the drive and see how Kim handles the team, etc. So she then turned around and told the crowd that I'd be assisting the driver today. LOL I thought that was funny seeing as how I hadn't even been there that long.
But of course the group were city folks and they didn't know the difference. On the entire ride I listened to Kim tell the folks all about the area and the people who own the beautiful farms we were driving through.
Then she told us that the horses that were pulling us were actually famous... If you saw the last and most recent Pirates of the Caribbean movie, one of the opening scenes is of two black horses pulling a wagon up fast into a castle.
So good old Duke and Doc were the horses they used in that movie. They were flown to Puerto Rico at the last minute when the producers other contacts didn't work out. I remember visiting that castle-like place when my family and I took a cruise from Puerto Rico years ago.
How cool is that. :)
Later today I had a Parelli instructor come. This is the first time I've ever asked an instructor to come to where I am and help me.
I'm so proud of what I've accomplished this winter because the instructor told me what she saw, and what she saw was what I was hoping she would see.
She helped me shim the saddle for Lily which I was struggling with. It's not perfect because of the way Lily moves. Even though she's cantering at liberty more fluidly, she still moves with a stiff body when on line.
This instructor had a couple of good exercises she shared with me to loosen her body up. So I had her blowing out really quickly. Love that.
She also shared a pattern I can do with Will which will move him right along. She thought I was ready and should be doing much more, so I'm thrilled with that.
I ended the day sharing smores in front of a campfire with my landlady. An absolutely beautiful evening and sunset.
:)
I can't believe that my time here is almost complete...I'm leaving for home in seven days.
They were super friendly and helpful and I learned how to measure for collars and also for harnesses.
The handler, Kim, was getting the horses and carriage ready because a small group were expected. They arrived early and I helped Kim pull the wagon up and watched very closely as she hooked up.
The owner walked up and suggested that I go on the drive and see how Kim handles the team, etc. So she then turned around and told the crowd that I'd be assisting the driver today. LOL I thought that was funny seeing as how I hadn't even been there that long.
But of course the group were city folks and they didn't know the difference. On the entire ride I listened to Kim tell the folks all about the area and the people who own the beautiful farms we were driving through.
Then she told us that the horses that were pulling us were actually famous... If you saw the last and most recent Pirates of the Caribbean movie, one of the opening scenes is of two black horses pulling a wagon up fast into a castle.
So good old Duke and Doc were the horses they used in that movie. They were flown to Puerto Rico at the last minute when the producers other contacts didn't work out. I remember visiting that castle-like place when my family and I took a cruise from Puerto Rico years ago.
How cool is that. :)
Later today I had a Parelli instructor come. This is the first time I've ever asked an instructor to come to where I am and help me.
I'm so proud of what I've accomplished this winter because the instructor told me what she saw, and what she saw was what I was hoping she would see.
She helped me shim the saddle for Lily which I was struggling with. It's not perfect because of the way Lily moves. Even though she's cantering at liberty more fluidly, she still moves with a stiff body when on line.
This instructor had a couple of good exercises she shared with me to loosen her body up. So I had her blowing out really quickly. Love that.
She also shared a pattern I can do with Will which will move him right along. She thought I was ready and should be doing much more, so I'm thrilled with that.
I ended the day sharing smores in front of a campfire with my landlady. An absolutely beautiful evening and sunset.
:)
I can't believe that my time here is almost complete...I'm leaving for home in seven days.
Wednesday, March 21, 2012
New friends.
I didn't get to play with the horses yesterday. There were projects I tried to do, like weed whack, but the darn thing wouldn't start. Nothing I tried made it even budge.
So I took fans apart, cleaned them and put them back together.
I mowed the playground which took quite a while.
After lunch, and after trying to start the weed whacker again to no avail, I went to start mowing between the paddocks. I only got about 50 feet and the engine died. It was out of gas. And the two gas containers were empty. So I gave up
and did some cleaning of my tack area and did inventory of what I would be packing up this weekend.
I quit early and went in to shower and make it over to a meeting in Ocala at the home of the regional dressage clubs presidents home. (Wow, that's a heck of a sentence.)
I'd called her because the couple that my husband and I met in the restaurant gave me her number. She's got a guest apartment and I called and did an inquiry. She invited me over for the clubs meeting as they were celebrating three years of the clubs existence.
What wonderful people they all were. Believe it or not, I'm going to join the club. They're all about friendship and fun with horses... and it's not just about dressage....they embrace combined training and trail riders too!
I felt warm and fuzzy being around all of them and even got to watch their guest speaker who was a horse massage therapist. I learned lots. I may even have that person out here to do my horses if I have time.
At any rate, it was a wonderful evening and I've made a few friends. They invited me to join them at the big driving show this weekend. So we're all meeting up early Saturday morning to stake out our place near the water hazard.
I was going to attend that show anyway, but now I have friends to do it with. Too cool.
I didn't get home until 9:30 and I had to change clothes so I could go out and feed and move the horses into their night-time paddock. All they cared about was getting their dinner and hay.
I did chores this morning and then went to have my second golf lesson. It was as great as the first. I'm learning lots!
Hopefully this will be the year I may actually play bogey golf. That's my goal anyway. I have lots of practice to do before that can happen, but one can always dream. :)
So I took fans apart, cleaned them and put them back together.
I mowed the playground which took quite a while.
After lunch, and after trying to start the weed whacker again to no avail, I went to start mowing between the paddocks. I only got about 50 feet and the engine died. It was out of gas. And the two gas containers were empty. So I gave up
and did some cleaning of my tack area and did inventory of what I would be packing up this weekend.
I quit early and went in to shower and make it over to a meeting in Ocala at the home of the regional dressage clubs presidents home. (Wow, that's a heck of a sentence.)
I'd called her because the couple that my husband and I met in the restaurant gave me her number. She's got a guest apartment and I called and did an inquiry. She invited me over for the clubs meeting as they were celebrating three years of the clubs existence.
What wonderful people they all were. Believe it or not, I'm going to join the club. They're all about friendship and fun with horses... and it's not just about dressage....they embrace combined training and trail riders too!
I felt warm and fuzzy being around all of them and even got to watch their guest speaker who was a horse massage therapist. I learned lots. I may even have that person out here to do my horses if I have time.
At any rate, it was a wonderful evening and I've made a few friends. They invited me to join them at the big driving show this weekend. So we're all meeting up early Saturday morning to stake out our place near the water hazard.
I was going to attend that show anyway, but now I have friends to do it with. Too cool.
I didn't get home until 9:30 and I had to change clothes so I could go out and feed and move the horses into their night-time paddock. All they cared about was getting their dinner and hay.
I did chores this morning and then went to have my second golf lesson. It was as great as the first. I'm learning lots!
Hopefully this will be the year I may actually play bogey golf. That's my goal anyway. I have lots of practice to do before that can happen, but one can always dream. :)
Monday, March 19, 2012
Boring work, but great horse time.
Mowing and picking lots and lots of poo today, but after lunch I did horse time and it was great.
Today was a test and they passed with flying colors. I pretended that I'd been riding them for years and saddled them up and headed out to the playground.
I'm just amazed at how little they need for warmup now.
They're immediately licking and chewing and asking questions. "What do you want now mom?" :)
Lily was doing her best today. Staying LB and and she finally got how to come and get me on the pedestal perfectly.
Will was wonderful. This is becoming normal for him. Who knew that LB lug would love to make me happy. :)
And it doesn't stop after the saddle comes off. They follow me around everywhere.
Liberty is getting really good with both of them too.
Sigh..... this may be a boring entry but I'm really happy.
Today was a test and they passed with flying colors. I pretended that I'd been riding them for years and saddled them up and headed out to the playground.
I'm just amazed at how little they need for warmup now.
They're immediately licking and chewing and asking questions. "What do you want now mom?" :)
Lily was doing her best today. Staying LB and and she finally got how to come and get me on the pedestal perfectly.
Will was wonderful. This is becoming normal for him. Who knew that LB lug would love to make me happy. :)
And it doesn't stop after the saddle comes off. They follow me around everywhere.
Liberty is getting really good with both of them too.
Sigh..... this may be a boring entry but I'm really happy.
Saturday, March 17, 2012
A really scary moment.
I've considered myself a good and safe horseman for some time now. I try to be as safe as possible, but something happened day before yesterday that I could not foresee.
Will was saddled and I'd been doing point to point with him. He was doing very well and when he bee-lined it to the fence corner just from my focus only, I decided that we'd end the session right then and there.
So, I gathered my rein and mane in my left hand, put my right hand on the horn, leaned forward, and at the same time brought both feet out of the stirrups and jumped out of the saddle to land on both feet. Just like I always do. I've done it hundreds of times.
But this time, as I leaned forward, my belt caught on the horn. I found myself hanging on the side of my horse. All my weight was on the horn. I was too far down to try to throw a leg back on. Plus I was afraid this would spook him, the effort would have to be gigantic.
A full second didn't go by until I knew I was in trouble. I couldn't go up and I couldn't go down. All of my weight was beginning to pull the saddle down. If that happened and he freaked I was gonna be toast. My mind was working so fast as to what to do. I told myself not to freak out....think damit!
It was useless, the only thing I could do was try to go up and heave myself high enough to get the buckle off the horn.
I would just have to deal with whatever he did. I had to make the effort huge because I figured I only had one shot.
I have two things to say.........
Thank goodness that I've been working out and am in shape...
And I'm so freakin proud of my horse and I now love him more than ever.
He was already thinking "What the hell?", but when I heaved myself up and jerked the belt off he didn't move. His head came up like "Holy Shit!" .... but he never moved and as soon as I was on the ground he acted like nothing had happened even though the saddle had been pulled off kilter.
Disaster averted. I've lost 18 pounds since I've been here. But old habits die hard and I'd still been putting my belt on the same hole as I always have.
Rest assured my belt got tightened up four holes. And I will NOT forget.
I did a lot of dirty work today... the yard debris dumpster is officially full. Just about the time I got Will tacked up in the bareback pad and I was on him walking around, it started to rain. I didn't care at first, but then I realized that the pad was leather. Crap. So I jumped off, took it off and turned it inside out and carried it under my arm while I opened the gate for Lily to follow us to the barn.
I fed them in the rain, made sure they had plenty of hay and water, and headed for the house. It was really hard to strip because my clothes were wet and sticking to me.
Man, did that shower feel good.
Will was saddled and I'd been doing point to point with him. He was doing very well and when he bee-lined it to the fence corner just from my focus only, I decided that we'd end the session right then and there.
So, I gathered my rein and mane in my left hand, put my right hand on the horn, leaned forward, and at the same time brought both feet out of the stirrups and jumped out of the saddle to land on both feet. Just like I always do. I've done it hundreds of times.
But this time, as I leaned forward, my belt caught on the horn. I found myself hanging on the side of my horse. All my weight was on the horn. I was too far down to try to throw a leg back on. Plus I was afraid this would spook him, the effort would have to be gigantic.
A full second didn't go by until I knew I was in trouble. I couldn't go up and I couldn't go down. All of my weight was beginning to pull the saddle down. If that happened and he freaked I was gonna be toast. My mind was working so fast as to what to do. I told myself not to freak out....think damit!
It was useless, the only thing I could do was try to go up and heave myself high enough to get the buckle off the horn.
I would just have to deal with whatever he did. I had to make the effort huge because I figured I only had one shot.
I have two things to say.........
Thank goodness that I've been working out and am in shape...
And I'm so freakin proud of my horse and I now love him more than ever.
He was already thinking "What the hell?", but when I heaved myself up and jerked the belt off he didn't move. His head came up like "Holy Shit!" .... but he never moved and as soon as I was on the ground he acted like nothing had happened even though the saddle had been pulled off kilter.
Disaster averted. I've lost 18 pounds since I've been here. But old habits die hard and I'd still been putting my belt on the same hole as I always have.
Rest assured my belt got tightened up four holes. And I will NOT forget.
I did a lot of dirty work today... the yard debris dumpster is officially full. Just about the time I got Will tacked up in the bareback pad and I was on him walking around, it started to rain. I didn't care at first, but then I realized that the pad was leather. Crap. So I jumped off, took it off and turned it inside out and carried it under my arm while I opened the gate for Lily to follow us to the barn.
I fed them in the rain, made sure they had plenty of hay and water, and headed for the house. It was really hard to strip because my clothes were wet and sticking to me.
Man, did that shower feel good.
Friday, March 16, 2012
Unexpected addition to my day.
Well, those thunderstorms wreaked havoc on the fenceline. I had to go next door yesterday and borrow the neighbors chainsaw. I got a really huge branch cut up into smaller pieces that I could lift and got it all hauled away to the dumpster.
Then it was a real chore for me to hand saw the boards and get the fence repaired. It wasn't easy holding up the sixteen foot boards and pushing into them in order to get the nails pounded in. That branch just HAD to fall on a curved part of the fence. Sigh......
Next, I weedeated for two hours.... my hands were buzzing for another twenty minutes after I stopped.
After going to the gas station for more gas, I mowed with the new bagger on the back of the riding lawn mower. I hate that thing. It throws dust and dirt everywhere. My bathwater looked like soup because I was so dirty yesterday. Ugh.
On a brighter note, after work I played with and rode Will.
Will miracles never cease.... he was an angel! So, my ride didn't last very long. I always love to end of a good note so he'll give more of himself the next day. I even took him into the yard to graze all the green grass to his hearts content.
Lily was jealous and looked longingly over the fence. If she does really well today, I'll probably let her do the same thing.
The joint supplement I've been giving them is working because I noticed yesterday that Lily is moving alot more fluidly when she canters. :)
Off to do chores. I think I'll quit a little early today. My landlady has been gone a couple of days and I'm feeling the need for civilization. A trip into town might be in order.
:)
Then it was a real chore for me to hand saw the boards and get the fence repaired. It wasn't easy holding up the sixteen foot boards and pushing into them in order to get the nails pounded in. That branch just HAD to fall on a curved part of the fence. Sigh......
Next, I weedeated for two hours.... my hands were buzzing for another twenty minutes after I stopped.
After going to the gas station for more gas, I mowed with the new bagger on the back of the riding lawn mower. I hate that thing. It throws dust and dirt everywhere. My bathwater looked like soup because I was so dirty yesterday. Ugh.
On a brighter note, after work I played with and rode Will.
Will miracles never cease.... he was an angel! So, my ride didn't last very long. I always love to end of a good note so he'll give more of himself the next day. I even took him into the yard to graze all the green grass to his hearts content.
Lily was jealous and looked longingly over the fence. If she does really well today, I'll probably let her do the same thing.
The joint supplement I've been giving them is working because I noticed yesterday that Lily is moving alot more fluidly when she canters. :)
Off to do chores. I think I'll quit a little early today. My landlady has been gone a couple of days and I'm feeling the need for civilization. A trip into town might be in order.
:)
Wednesday, March 14, 2012
Horses yesterday, golf today.
I had an interested session with Lily yesterday. I've taken her out and played with the saddle on for over a week now and I've only had her do the usual stuff at walk and trot.
But I wanted to get on her and not just bend her and so on, I knew I was going to ask her to move. So when I put the saddle on her I "really" looked at it from all angles and told myself that the front of the saddle should be sitting higher.
I got her done up and we went out to warm up. Since I was going to be riding I asked for a canter. She backed her ears and started crow hopping. (shock, she's never done this!)
I said "game over" and had her come to me. I'd put a couple of shim between the pad and saddle just to test. Well, I should have done that I suppose, but the really bad thing was I'd put the pad on upside down. I've never done that before....how could I do that... what a dummy.
I fixed everything and put the shims inside. No more ears back or crow hopping. How interesting.
The problem wasn't fixed however. Every time she cantered, the saddle slipped forward over her withers.
I took that pad and saddle off four different times with four different ways to shim. None worked.
Phooey. Now what?
Guess I'll have to see if I can get a local instructor here to help me figure this one out. I thought I knew how to gauge a horses topline and shim properly. Guess I thought wrong.
I didnt' play today because by the time I got home from my golf lesson, (which was awesome by the way) the clouds were looming. And as I write this I hear thunder so I'm going to head outside real fast and feed and get them bedded down for the night.
Later yall.
But I wanted to get on her and not just bend her and so on, I knew I was going to ask her to move. So when I put the saddle on her I "really" looked at it from all angles and told myself that the front of the saddle should be sitting higher.
I got her done up and we went out to warm up. Since I was going to be riding I asked for a canter. She backed her ears and started crow hopping. (shock, she's never done this!)
I said "game over" and had her come to me. I'd put a couple of shim between the pad and saddle just to test. Well, I should have done that I suppose, but the really bad thing was I'd put the pad on upside down. I've never done that before....how could I do that... what a dummy.
I fixed everything and put the shims inside. No more ears back or crow hopping. How interesting.
The problem wasn't fixed however. Every time she cantered, the saddle slipped forward over her withers.
I took that pad and saddle off four different times with four different ways to shim. None worked.
Phooey. Now what?
Guess I'll have to see if I can get a local instructor here to help me figure this one out. I thought I knew how to gauge a horses topline and shim properly. Guess I thought wrong.
I didnt' play today because by the time I got home from my golf lesson, (which was awesome by the way) the clouds were looming. And as I write this I hear thunder so I'm going to head outside real fast and feed and get them bedded down for the night.
Later yall.
Tuesday, March 13, 2012
Back to being horse and normal work busy.
My husband left yesterday around mid morning. He took C.C. with him and it's so nice now that I can leave my boots outside to dry and they won't get chewed on. And I won't get jumped on because she's so glad to seem me.
We had a good time while her was here. Now it's back to working for my landlady and getting more horse time in.
I'm also going to try to get back to my daily workouts. Miraculously I haven't gained but a pound or so since he got here.
After he left, I headed into town because I needed supplies and groceries. I also stopped at an antique mall I've been seeing and driving past for a couple months. It was worth it to stop as I picked up a few really cute things and also some gifts for people.
One of the things I picked up in town was some solvent... a bug and tar remover kinda stuff. My husband and I purchased some fence boards and brought them home in my truck. Who knew those boards would have fresh creosote, (yes, they sell creosote boards in Florida), and that nasty stuff got all over my truck. Hopefully, this solvent will get it off. Yuck.
The landlady purchased a big bagger for the riding lawnmower and we spent half the morning trying to put it together to no avail. There's one metal rod that won't fit so we can screw it down. I'm going to take it to the John Deere place and let them deal with it this afternoon. Horse time after that.
My landlady is leaving for southern Florida for a few days so I'll be here to look after the place. Her daughter is going to feed her horses so I don't have to deal with that
Beautiful weather we're going to have this week. :)
We had a good time while her was here. Now it's back to working for my landlady and getting more horse time in.
I'm also going to try to get back to my daily workouts. Miraculously I haven't gained but a pound or so since he got here.
After he left, I headed into town because I needed supplies and groceries. I also stopped at an antique mall I've been seeing and driving past for a couple months. It was worth it to stop as I picked up a few really cute things and also some gifts for people.
One of the things I picked up in town was some solvent... a bug and tar remover kinda stuff. My husband and I purchased some fence boards and brought them home in my truck. Who knew those boards would have fresh creosote, (yes, they sell creosote boards in Florida), and that nasty stuff got all over my truck. Hopefully, this solvent will get it off. Yuck.
The landlady purchased a big bagger for the riding lawnmower and we spent half the morning trying to put it together to no avail. There's one metal rod that won't fit so we can screw it down. I'm going to take it to the John Deere place and let them deal with it this afternoon. Horse time after that.
My landlady is leaving for southern Florida for a few days so I'll be here to look after the place. Her daughter is going to feed her horses so I don't have to deal with that
Beautiful weather we're going to have this week. :)
Saturday, March 10, 2012
A good start to the weekend.
After doing chores and rehanging some stall gates and scooping up yet more manure off the playground, my husband and I got all cleaned up and spiffy and went into Ocala to that very nice restaurant that the three of us went to last time he was here.
The second time was just as good as the first. Oh man, is that food good!
But the lucky and most pleasant thing was that the small table right next to us housed a small animal vet and his wife who are the next door neighbors to the "Petty's". Not the Pettys as in the race car Petty's, but the Pettys as in "quarter horses" Pettys. :)
They said that the Pettys have an apartment in their barn and have plenty of property. They are going to talk to the Pettys about maybe me living there next winter. !!
How cool is that!
A lazy day today. We went out for a late breakfast and now my husband's watching basketball on TV. For the first time in a long time, I think I'm going to try and take a nap. Maybe I'll be successful.
Then, if I wake up in time, I may go play with a horse.... if it doesn't rain. It's been threatening all day.
Hope you're all having a good weekend.
The second time was just as good as the first. Oh man, is that food good!
But the lucky and most pleasant thing was that the small table right next to us housed a small animal vet and his wife who are the next door neighbors to the "Petty's". Not the Pettys as in the race car Petty's, but the Pettys as in "quarter horses" Pettys. :)
They said that the Pettys have an apartment in their barn and have plenty of property. They are going to talk to the Pettys about maybe me living there next winter. !!
How cool is that!
A lazy day today. We went out for a late breakfast and now my husband's watching basketball on TV. For the first time in a long time, I think I'm going to try and take a nap. Maybe I'll be successful.
Then, if I wake up in time, I may go play with a horse.... if it doesn't rain. It's been threatening all day.
Hope you're all having a good weekend.
Friday, March 9, 2012
Raining
So my husband and I are in the house trying to figure out what we're going to do for the rest of the day. (He's practicing his trumpet at the moment.)
We've been having a great time. We do work most mornings, then I play with the horses and he keeps an eye on me.
We went to see "The Artist" together.
Yesterday, after chores we went and played golf. I actually had a pretty darn good round. I'll figure out my new driver soon I hope.
Since it's raining, there'll be no horse time today.
And I won't bore you with all the little chores we've been doing around here such as weed whacking, rehanging stall gates, etc.
Later gators.
We've been having a great time. We do work most mornings, then I play with the horses and he keeps an eye on me.
We went to see "The Artist" together.
Yesterday, after chores we went and played golf. I actually had a pretty darn good round. I'll figure out my new driver soon I hope.
Since it's raining, there'll be no horse time today.
And I won't bore you with all the little chores we've been doing around here such as weed whacking, rehanging stall gates, etc.
Later gators.
Sunday, March 4, 2012
Time is flying by!
I can't believe how fast the time is flying by here. I think it's only been a couple of days since I've posted only to realize it's much longer!
Not that any of you are waiting with baited breath or anything but I do apologize.
At last Tuesday's yoga class I invited my Canadian Parelli instructor friend, my landlady, and her daughter to come and have dinner and play some cards with me this past Friday.
So that was a good kick in my pants to get the house fully clean. I needed to do it anyway.
They all arrived and I cooked spaghetti and meatballs with garlic toast, garlicky cooked mushrooms and salad.
My landlady brought some little tarts and they ate them with the ice cream my husband left in my freezer when he was here last time.
We were talking and laughing so much that we never did even think about playing cards.
Nobody stayed really late because all of us had to get up and get things done so we could all go to a fundraiser for a Parelli instructor named Jerry Williams.
He had a head injury and still isn't quite right so they're trying to raise money so he can go to Washington DC and get some help.
Lots of instructors were giving their talent away for this event and it was just great to see so many people come and support him. I got brushed up on several knots I'd forgotten how to tie also.
Dancing Pete had everyone doing great games to teach how to "go with the flow".
Lots of great items were donated for the raffle. I bought some tickets and I hope I win one of those great items. We don't have to be present to win so I hope I get a call later today. :)
I did make a donation and bought some garage sale items also.
They're out there again today doing the same thing but I didn't go because my hubby arrived about two hours ago.
C.C. was so very happy to see him and he couldn't even get over to me to hug me because it was all about her. Hehe...it took five minutes of paying attention to her and settling her down before he could give me a proper hug. :)
He'll be here all week and I'm looking forward to it.
I was awakened around 4:30 this morning by a heck of a storm. I looked out the back window and the light out there showed me that the rain was going sideways! Unfortunately, it was driving the rain into C.C.'s doghouse. So I blocked off a small area for her next to the washing machine and dryer in the house for her to spend the rest of the night.
I'd just gotten her settled inside when the electricity went off.
Phooey. My landlady has ticking clocks all over the house and here I am at 4:50 in the morning trying to get back to sleep with no avail. I always use a fan set on low to have some white noise to block all the noises out, but with no electricity........
Finally, at 6:30 a.m. the fan came back on and I got back to sleep.
Paul wants to go eat at a seafood place tonight so I bet I'll eat a little more than usual so I also bet I'll sleep really well and hard tonight.
The storm brought in cooler weather.... once again, I blamed it on my husband's arrival.
Oh well, it'll warm up again very soon.
No horse time the past couple of days but they've been wearing a saddle for their play times this past week. This coming week will be the first time I'll actually be mounting up.
If all my play on the ground has been done correctly it should go as smoothly as silk.
We shall see.
Not that any of you are waiting with baited breath or anything but I do apologize.
At last Tuesday's yoga class I invited my Canadian Parelli instructor friend, my landlady, and her daughter to come and have dinner and play some cards with me this past Friday.
So that was a good kick in my pants to get the house fully clean. I needed to do it anyway.
They all arrived and I cooked spaghetti and meatballs with garlic toast, garlicky cooked mushrooms and salad.
My landlady brought some little tarts and they ate them with the ice cream my husband left in my freezer when he was here last time.
We were talking and laughing so much that we never did even think about playing cards.
Nobody stayed really late because all of us had to get up and get things done so we could all go to a fundraiser for a Parelli instructor named Jerry Williams.
He had a head injury and still isn't quite right so they're trying to raise money so he can go to Washington DC and get some help.
Lots of instructors were giving their talent away for this event and it was just great to see so many people come and support him. I got brushed up on several knots I'd forgotten how to tie also.
Dancing Pete had everyone doing great games to teach how to "go with the flow".
Lots of great items were donated for the raffle. I bought some tickets and I hope I win one of those great items. We don't have to be present to win so I hope I get a call later today. :)
I did make a donation and bought some garage sale items also.
They're out there again today doing the same thing but I didn't go because my hubby arrived about two hours ago.
C.C. was so very happy to see him and he couldn't even get over to me to hug me because it was all about her. Hehe...it took five minutes of paying attention to her and settling her down before he could give me a proper hug. :)
He'll be here all week and I'm looking forward to it.
I was awakened around 4:30 this morning by a heck of a storm. I looked out the back window and the light out there showed me that the rain was going sideways! Unfortunately, it was driving the rain into C.C.'s doghouse. So I blocked off a small area for her next to the washing machine and dryer in the house for her to spend the rest of the night.
I'd just gotten her settled inside when the electricity went off.
Phooey. My landlady has ticking clocks all over the house and here I am at 4:50 in the morning trying to get back to sleep with no avail. I always use a fan set on low to have some white noise to block all the noises out, but with no electricity........
Finally, at 6:30 a.m. the fan came back on and I got back to sleep.
Paul wants to go eat at a seafood place tonight so I bet I'll eat a little more than usual so I also bet I'll sleep really well and hard tonight.
The storm brought in cooler weather.... once again, I blamed it on my husband's arrival.
Oh well, it'll warm up again very soon.
No horse time the past couple of days but they've been wearing a saddle for their play times this past week. This coming week will be the first time I'll actually be mounting up.
If all my play on the ground has been done correctly it should go as smoothly as silk.
We shall see.
Wednesday, February 29, 2012
I'm back to normal...finally.
I can't believe it took this long but I finally feel back to normal. I'm back into my regular exercise program and feel stronger and raring to go again. The past two weeks, while I certainly moved and did alot of things, I just didn't get as much done as I usually do and didn't feel like I had as much energy. Waking up in the morning was tough, etc.
But now I'm back to normal. Yay.
Well, the rain is gone and the grass is for sure growing.
I'll mow everything at the end of this week right before my husband gets here on Sunday so it'll look nice.
C.C. has become obcessed with a tree near the barn that she thinks a bird is in. She saw one in there a couple of days ago and so now she thinks it's in there all the time. She'll bark and bark while looking up into the tree.
I finally had to yell at her to shut up today, she was driving me nuts. Ugh.
Funny, she paid no attention to the cat that was ten feet from her under the logs. One growl from the cat and C.C. decided that wasn't something she wanted to pursue.
I spent some real undemanding time with Will and Lily today. Just the way they look at me and get close to me lets me know how much they really like that.
I have to laugh at myself.... hehe..... what's the chance I'm being anthropromorphic. (I know I didn't spell that correctly.)
Went to do that difficult yoga again last night. I really sweat during her sessions, but I feel like it's helping me get stronger.
Theresa is very good. She always gives us wash cloths that are infused with lavender to place over our face before and after our session. It smells so good.
A Parelli instructor friend of mine came to yoga also. She's from Canada and since she's got workshops scheduled she's heading back to Canada BEFORE I'm heading back to Virginia.
Too funny.
My husband will make dinner for her when she overnights at our place in Virginia. He's so good about that.
Made muffins and took them and a thank you card to the guy who gave us a round of golf.
C.C. went with me.
Okay..........................I'm officially B-O-R-I-N-G.
But now I'm back to normal. Yay.
Well, the rain is gone and the grass is for sure growing.
I'll mow everything at the end of this week right before my husband gets here on Sunday so it'll look nice.
C.C. has become obcessed with a tree near the barn that she thinks a bird is in. She saw one in there a couple of days ago and so now she thinks it's in there all the time. She'll bark and bark while looking up into the tree.
I finally had to yell at her to shut up today, she was driving me nuts. Ugh.
Funny, she paid no attention to the cat that was ten feet from her under the logs. One growl from the cat and C.C. decided that wasn't something she wanted to pursue.
I spent some real undemanding time with Will and Lily today. Just the way they look at me and get close to me lets me know how much they really like that.
I have to laugh at myself.... hehe..... what's the chance I'm being anthropromorphic. (I know I didn't spell that correctly.)
Went to do that difficult yoga again last night. I really sweat during her sessions, but I feel like it's helping me get stronger.
Theresa is very good. She always gives us wash cloths that are infused with lavender to place over our face before and after our session. It smells so good.
A Parelli instructor friend of mine came to yoga also. She's from Canada and since she's got workshops scheduled she's heading back to Canada BEFORE I'm heading back to Virginia.
Too funny.
My husband will make dinner for her when she overnights at our place in Virginia. He's so good about that.
Made muffins and took them and a thank you card to the guy who gave us a round of golf.
C.C. went with me.
Okay..........................I'm officially B-O-R-I-N-G.
Monday, February 27, 2012
Rain, rain.
Been raining for two days. I've been spending time in the house getting caught up on Parelli education materials.
I just don my rain gear and go out every once in a while to make sure the horses have hay and water.
C.C. is getting bored because the only place to keep dry is her dog house.
Gotta order some garlic and stuff because I have a feeling the weather will be getting even more summer like very soon and the bugs may come out.
I stayed up too late last night because I watched the "Oscars".
No surprises there. I haven't seen any of the nominated best movies. Sigh....
My house is all clean and the laundry is done. I'm back on a good exercise routine. In fact, tomorrow night I'm going back to do more of that difficult yoga with Theresa.
Oh joy. (eyes rolling)
I just don my rain gear and go out every once in a while to make sure the horses have hay and water.
C.C. is getting bored because the only place to keep dry is her dog house.
Gotta order some garlic and stuff because I have a feeling the weather will be getting even more summer like very soon and the bugs may come out.
I stayed up too late last night because I watched the "Oscars".
No surprises there. I haven't seen any of the nominated best movies. Sigh....
My house is all clean and the laundry is done. I'm back on a good exercise routine. In fact, tomorrow night I'm going back to do more of that difficult yoga with Theresa.
Oh joy. (eyes rolling)
Friday, February 24, 2012
The weekend's here!
Not that the weekend is any different really from the weekdays. :)
Another warm, sunny day in Florida. (As usual) :)
Spent the morning doing chores and did quite a bit of mowing. It always makes a place look great when it's freshly mowed. That little bit of rain we got gives everything a little punch of green for a few days.
Took C.C. with me to run some errands. I always try to keep her in the seat next to me, but she often gets scared when she sees people and will dive into the floorboard to hide.
She was doing so well with cars and people, then this idiot "hell's angels" kinda guy on a motorcycle comes right up to the passenger window to talk to me. Ugh. C.C. dove into the floorboard and I asked the stanger to walk away explaining quickly that she was a rescue and really afraid.
Then I had to go into the gas station building to get a receipt and that same guy yelled at the top of his lungs for the manager.... not once but twice. He wasn't angry or anything, he just knew one of the attendants needed the manager and couldn't seem to find him.
Those kind of people want attention and I was so glad to see that the people standing in line just ignored him even though we all had to cover our ears he was so loud. Like I said he wasn't angry, just really LOUD. And obnoxious.
C.C. and I went to the dump place to take our trash, then I tried to get a photo CD copied at a CVS to no avail. Poor C.C. had to wait in the truck for at least an hour because nobody could seem to make the computers work. They're working on it and I should be able to pick the copy up tomorrow.
I then stopped for a couple things in the grocery store.
I saw three veterinarians trucks today. Every time I see one it reminds me of my sweet daughter-in-law who's working very hard in vet school. Her husband is my oldest son who lives in Texas.
I sure do miss them.
After we got home I had the best play sessions with my horses, BOTH of them.
Lily wanted to be right brained about the back side of the playground but I handled it perfectly for her horsinality and it just took a few seconds for her to trust me and she was all mine heart and soul for the next 30 minutes. :)
She did sideways beautifully today.
Will also did very well. Still having to have a tremendous amount of patience with him while I teach transitions on the circle.
I've never seen a horse walk slower than Will. He can make one revolution of a circle at the walk that takes five minutes. I'm as serious as a judge.
The minute he stops without me asking though his butt's got to get in gear. I'm not going to do that but once or twice though because I have to stay ahead of him, mentally. As soon as he gets bored on the circle, he'll know that if he stops then something exciting will happen. So I have to stay on top of the mental aspect of our play. Hehe, that boy.... he's so much fun.
You won't believe what happened this morning. I was trying to get some things done last night and didn't get to bed until 11:00 p.m. When the alarm went off at 7:30 this morning I shut it off. .... And that's the last thing I remembered until I woke up at 9:15!!!!!
I haven't slept that late in forever!!!
I did get sunburned yesterday, and have been working my body pretty hard. I guess I was tired huh.
I'm going to bed early tonight.
TaTa for now.
Another warm, sunny day in Florida. (As usual) :)
Spent the morning doing chores and did quite a bit of mowing. It always makes a place look great when it's freshly mowed. That little bit of rain we got gives everything a little punch of green for a few days.
Took C.C. with me to run some errands. I always try to keep her in the seat next to me, but she often gets scared when she sees people and will dive into the floorboard to hide.
She was doing so well with cars and people, then this idiot "hell's angels" kinda guy on a motorcycle comes right up to the passenger window to talk to me. Ugh. C.C. dove into the floorboard and I asked the stanger to walk away explaining quickly that she was a rescue and really afraid.
Then I had to go into the gas station building to get a receipt and that same guy yelled at the top of his lungs for the manager.... not once but twice. He wasn't angry or anything, he just knew one of the attendants needed the manager and couldn't seem to find him.
Those kind of people want attention and I was so glad to see that the people standing in line just ignored him even though we all had to cover our ears he was so loud. Like I said he wasn't angry, just really LOUD. And obnoxious.
C.C. and I went to the dump place to take our trash, then I tried to get a photo CD copied at a CVS to no avail. Poor C.C. had to wait in the truck for at least an hour because nobody could seem to make the computers work. They're working on it and I should be able to pick the copy up tomorrow.
I then stopped for a couple things in the grocery store.
I saw three veterinarians trucks today. Every time I see one it reminds me of my sweet daughter-in-law who's working very hard in vet school. Her husband is my oldest son who lives in Texas.
I sure do miss them.
After we got home I had the best play sessions with my horses, BOTH of them.
Lily wanted to be right brained about the back side of the playground but I handled it perfectly for her horsinality and it just took a few seconds for her to trust me and she was all mine heart and soul for the next 30 minutes. :)
She did sideways beautifully today.
Will also did very well. Still having to have a tremendous amount of patience with him while I teach transitions on the circle.
I've never seen a horse walk slower than Will. He can make one revolution of a circle at the walk that takes five minutes. I'm as serious as a judge.
The minute he stops without me asking though his butt's got to get in gear. I'm not going to do that but once or twice though because I have to stay ahead of him, mentally. As soon as he gets bored on the circle, he'll know that if he stops then something exciting will happen. So I have to stay on top of the mental aspect of our play. Hehe, that boy.... he's so much fun.
You won't believe what happened this morning. I was trying to get some things done last night and didn't get to bed until 11:00 p.m. When the alarm went off at 7:30 this morning I shut it off. .... And that's the last thing I remembered until I woke up at 9:15!!!!!
I haven't slept that late in forever!!!
I did get sunburned yesterday, and have been working my body pretty hard. I guess I was tired huh.
I'm going to bed early tonight.
TaTa for now.
Thursday, February 23, 2012
A good day.
It was warm and muggy today. I think I'm going to have to get fly sheets for Will and Lily. The natural fly spray I bought isn't working out so great.
Jim Crew, the farrier, came again today. He trimmed more off of Will's inside edges. One more trim and he should be almost 100 percent straighter. :)
Jim and I have a golf date next week. C.C. almost took a treat from him.... that's really good for her.
I picked up lots of poo from the playground today and did some mowing, it's looking better and better out there and I'm getting more and more room to play.
Then I played with both of my horses. I apologized to Lily for being so direct line yesterday. It took about 20 minutes but we didn't start our session until I had her trusting me. It paid off and I got her hind end only on the pedestal. :) I was able to ask for her front end to move around the pedestal too. Then I put her front end on the pedestal and she moved her hind end around.
Will was full of vim and vigor today. It was totally his fault that he had to sweat so much. :) Every time he wanted to do airs above the ground from a tiny ask from me, I encouraged it just a little more than he wanted me too. Pretty soon he figured out that if he'll just follow my suggestions he would move and work far less.
Got some nice transitions and stops in the circling game today.
Then I went into Ocala and did some shopping. Bras, shoes, (two pair), items for the kitchen so I can do some baking, (not for me), groceries and most important....... a new cell phone.
I'd had it with my old one. It just wouldn't work properly. It was ancient so I had to just bite the bullet.
Waving to all you followers... I'm off to bed.
Jim Crew, the farrier, came again today. He trimmed more off of Will's inside edges. One more trim and he should be almost 100 percent straighter. :)
Jim and I have a golf date next week. C.C. almost took a treat from him.... that's really good for her.
I picked up lots of poo from the playground today and did some mowing, it's looking better and better out there and I'm getting more and more room to play.
Then I played with both of my horses. I apologized to Lily for being so direct line yesterday. It took about 20 minutes but we didn't start our session until I had her trusting me. It paid off and I got her hind end only on the pedestal. :) I was able to ask for her front end to move around the pedestal too. Then I put her front end on the pedestal and she moved her hind end around.
Will was full of vim and vigor today. It was totally his fault that he had to sweat so much. :) Every time he wanted to do airs above the ground from a tiny ask from me, I encouraged it just a little more than he wanted me too. Pretty soon he figured out that if he'll just follow my suggestions he would move and work far less.
Got some nice transitions and stops in the circling game today.
Then I went into Ocala and did some shopping. Bras, shoes, (two pair), items for the kitchen so I can do some baking, (not for me), groceries and most important....... a new cell phone.
I'd had it with my old one. It just wouldn't work properly. It was ancient so I had to just bite the bullet.
Waving to all you followers... I'm off to bed.
Tuesday, February 21, 2012
Pain
Yes, pain. And I don't usually have pain but it disabled me for a couple of days.
I don't know what it was. I actually still have a little of it, but not bad at all.
My lower abdomen felt like someone was taking my uterus or ovaries and squishing them in their fist. As I sat on the riding lawn mower trying to pick up poo, every tiny bump in the ground felt like someone was punching me.
So needless to say I didn't get much done Saturday and Sunday. On Sunday night my landlady reminded me about the red light and I used it that evening. It was better yesterday. She and I actually went out to the Make-a-Wish Foundation's fundraiser. We watched Pat Parelli and Karen O'Connor compete for the top prize. They didn't win, (Aron Vale and another cowboy did.), but it was sure alot of fun to watch. The cowboys had to ride a hunter and jump a course, and the english riders had to ride a cow horse and do a reining pattern and wrangle a cow. :) I hope the foundation made a lot of money.
The Parelli table was right in front of us and Linda's dogs barked like crazy when the cow got close. It was too funny. Pat's parents were there and a good time was had by all.
My week with my family was wonderful. Some of the highlights....
*Free golf at the head pros club. (That guy I met next door.)
*Dinner at a place called "Cody's Roadhouse" that was just too much fun. (Had some lovely Margarita's.)
*Zip-lining the canyon. This was awesome! We did nine zip lines across trees, canyons and water. Took three hours and it was incredible fun!
*Golf at the Country Club of Ocala. Beautiful, (and difficult) course! Loved it!
*Dinner at Cuvee. A VERY nice restaurant. Unique and I'll definitely be going back there. Worth every penny.
We spent some fun time at home too. We played five games of Pinochle..... I won four of them. :)
Hey, they're the ones that wanted me to learn the game! Hehe.
It was very difficult bringing the dog with them as they reiterated to me more than once. The dog needed to be walked and they didn't bring warm clothes with them, so when they stopped at a pet friendly place in South Carolina they nearly froze to death outside. It was terribly windy and freezing.
So C.C. is staying with me until my husband comes back in a couple of weeks. She missed him for the first two days but she's in a routine now and having fun with me.
We almost got attacked by another dog today on our walkabout. The dog came out of nowhere snarling, and instinctively I jerked C.C. to the other side of me and yelled at the dog. (Pit bull looking thing.) The dog stopped about 6 feet from us and stood there growling.
I stood like a tree, growled back and stared hard at him. After a few seconds I guess the dog decided it wasn't worth it and backed down.
C.C. and I went our merry way and the dog didn't try again.
Whew...disaster averted. We were lucky.
Our walks will go a different direction from now on.
I can't believe I didn't gain weight while my family was here. I actually lost two. I've lost a total of 15 pounds. I really do need to start back up on my exercise routine now that my abdomen pain is gone. (Still don't have a clue what it was.)
I'll start tonight by going to yoga with my landlady. She asked if I wanted to go along with her tonight to the Parelli ranch because Teresa is going to give lessons.
Yoga will do me good I'm sure.
I'll be checking in more often now, I promise.
I don't know what it was. I actually still have a little of it, but not bad at all.
My lower abdomen felt like someone was taking my uterus or ovaries and squishing them in their fist. As I sat on the riding lawn mower trying to pick up poo, every tiny bump in the ground felt like someone was punching me.
So needless to say I didn't get much done Saturday and Sunday. On Sunday night my landlady reminded me about the red light and I used it that evening. It was better yesterday. She and I actually went out to the Make-a-Wish Foundation's fundraiser. We watched Pat Parelli and Karen O'Connor compete for the top prize. They didn't win, (Aron Vale and another cowboy did.), but it was sure alot of fun to watch. The cowboys had to ride a hunter and jump a course, and the english riders had to ride a cow horse and do a reining pattern and wrangle a cow. :) I hope the foundation made a lot of money.
The Parelli table was right in front of us and Linda's dogs barked like crazy when the cow got close. It was too funny. Pat's parents were there and a good time was had by all.
My week with my family was wonderful. Some of the highlights....
*Free golf at the head pros club. (That guy I met next door.)
*Dinner at a place called "Cody's Roadhouse" that was just too much fun. (Had some lovely Margarita's.)
*Zip-lining the canyon. This was awesome! We did nine zip lines across trees, canyons and water. Took three hours and it was incredible fun!
*Golf at the Country Club of Ocala. Beautiful, (and difficult) course! Loved it!
*Dinner at Cuvee. A VERY nice restaurant. Unique and I'll definitely be going back there. Worth every penny.
We spent some fun time at home too. We played five games of Pinochle..... I won four of them. :)
Hey, they're the ones that wanted me to learn the game! Hehe.
It was very difficult bringing the dog with them as they reiterated to me more than once. The dog needed to be walked and they didn't bring warm clothes with them, so when they stopped at a pet friendly place in South Carolina they nearly froze to death outside. It was terribly windy and freezing.
So C.C. is staying with me until my husband comes back in a couple of weeks. She missed him for the first two days but she's in a routine now and having fun with me.
We almost got attacked by another dog today on our walkabout. The dog came out of nowhere snarling, and instinctively I jerked C.C. to the other side of me and yelled at the dog. (Pit bull looking thing.) The dog stopped about 6 feet from us and stood there growling.
I stood like a tree, growled back and stared hard at him. After a few seconds I guess the dog decided it wasn't worth it and backed down.
C.C. and I went our merry way and the dog didn't try again.
Whew...disaster averted. We were lucky.
Our walks will go a different direction from now on.
I can't believe I didn't gain weight while my family was here. I actually lost two. I've lost a total of 15 pounds. I really do need to start back up on my exercise routine now that my abdomen pain is gone. (Still don't have a clue what it was.)
I'll start tonight by going to yoga with my landlady. She asked if I wanted to go along with her tonight to the Parelli ranch because Teresa is going to give lessons.
Yoga will do me good I'm sure.
I'll be checking in more often now, I promise.
Saturday, February 18, 2012
My apologies!
I know, I know! It's been a long time since I've posted....but with good reason, I've been a very busy girl. :)
My husband and son left a couple of hours ago to head back home. I miss them already.
Guess who's living with me for awhile?.... the dog. Yes, C.C. is staying in sunny Florida with me.
I promise I'll tell you all about what happened this week, but not in this post.
I'm tired and I have some resting to do, and also a lot of cleaning and laundry.
I'll post everything that happened this past week tomorrow.
My husband and son left a couple of hours ago to head back home. I miss them already.
Guess who's living with me for awhile?.... the dog. Yes, C.C. is staying in sunny Florida with me.
I promise I'll tell you all about what happened this week, but not in this post.
I'm tired and I have some resting to do, and also a lot of cleaning and laundry.
I'll post everything that happened this past week tomorrow.
Monday, February 13, 2012
Visitors.
Hello followers.
I'm enjoying having my son and husband here.
I got up early on Sunday morning so I could get all the chores done before I went to my landlady's church to see her perform. She and others do handbells and it was so very nice.
What beautiful music to hear on a Sunday morning. I hadn't been in a church in many years so I was wondering what the sermon would be like.
Don't tell my landlady but I think her pastor is a little unusual. :)
He was telling the story of how Leopard got his spots. He said that Ethiopian gave them to him..... and that's why black people's finger tips are white. !!!!!!!!!! What?!!!!!!!!
I was very close to laughing out loud when I heard the only black woman in the choir giggling in disbelief! He was completely serious which only made it funnier. Wow.
I left after the sermon because I was afraid my family would be early.
They actually didn't arrive until around 2:30.
After hugs, they told me how difficult it was traveling with our dog, C.C. They said she slept "all" day in the car, then stayed up running around and barking all night in the hotel room.
My husband and son were relating to me how they were stupid when they made the decision not to bring coats with them. They figured they were heading to a warm spot so only had light sweathers.
When they arrived at the hotel for the night in South Carolina they had to walk the dog and my son put every piece of clothing on that the both of them had and proceeded to freeze to death. The wind was howling and that cold front moved down into Florida. Last night it got down to 22 degrees. My landlady said she hasn't seen that in many, many years. Figures.
I made spaghetti and meatballs with kale and spinach for dinner, then we played Pinochle. I won. :)
Already warming up today and everyone feels so much better. The cold wind I endured during chores yesterday has given me a cold sore. If I'm out in the winter weather I get many cold sores during the season. I thought I'd be immune to them here. Again, figures.
I made the guys work today. We picked poo, then loaded up all the debris I'd been gathering since I've been here and headed for the big dump. Boy, that place is a big deal! A really big operation. I got charged to dump all that stuff so my landlady will help with that I'm sure.
But it's done, and the farm looks so much better.
We had lunch late around 2:00 p.m. at Chili's, then headed home. I drove by to show them Orange Lake. It's dried up and very low and it's how I made my point that Florida is experiencing a drought.
Sat outside this evening with a glass of wine. Well, my husband and I did. When we got home, our son went to take a nap. (He stayed up late last night reading a book after we went to bed so he was tired.)
We're going to have breakfast for dinner tonight so I'll catch up with you all tomorrow.
I'm enjoying having my son and husband here.
I got up early on Sunday morning so I could get all the chores done before I went to my landlady's church to see her perform. She and others do handbells and it was so very nice.
What beautiful music to hear on a Sunday morning. I hadn't been in a church in many years so I was wondering what the sermon would be like.
Don't tell my landlady but I think her pastor is a little unusual. :)
He was telling the story of how Leopard got his spots. He said that Ethiopian gave them to him..... and that's why black people's finger tips are white. !!!!!!!!!! What?!!!!!!!!
I was very close to laughing out loud when I heard the only black woman in the choir giggling in disbelief! He was completely serious which only made it funnier. Wow.
I left after the sermon because I was afraid my family would be early.
They actually didn't arrive until around 2:30.
After hugs, they told me how difficult it was traveling with our dog, C.C. They said she slept "all" day in the car, then stayed up running around and barking all night in the hotel room.
My husband and son were relating to me how they were stupid when they made the decision not to bring coats with them. They figured they were heading to a warm spot so only had light sweathers.
When they arrived at the hotel for the night in South Carolina they had to walk the dog and my son put every piece of clothing on that the both of them had and proceeded to freeze to death. The wind was howling and that cold front moved down into Florida. Last night it got down to 22 degrees. My landlady said she hasn't seen that in many, many years. Figures.
I made spaghetti and meatballs with kale and spinach for dinner, then we played Pinochle. I won. :)
Already warming up today and everyone feels so much better. The cold wind I endured during chores yesterday has given me a cold sore. If I'm out in the winter weather I get many cold sores during the season. I thought I'd be immune to them here. Again, figures.
I made the guys work today. We picked poo, then loaded up all the debris I'd been gathering since I've been here and headed for the big dump. Boy, that place is a big deal! A really big operation. I got charged to dump all that stuff so my landlady will help with that I'm sure.
But it's done, and the farm looks so much better.
We had lunch late around 2:00 p.m. at Chili's, then headed home. I drove by to show them Orange Lake. It's dried up and very low and it's how I made my point that Florida is experiencing a drought.
Sat outside this evening with a glass of wine. Well, my husband and I did. When we got home, our son went to take a nap. (He stayed up late last night reading a book after we went to bed so he was tired.)
We're going to have breakfast for dinner tonight so I'll catch up with you all tomorrow.
Friday, February 10, 2012
Another busy day.
Hello all.
After working out and drinking a shake this morning I got in my pickup and went into town. I had errands to run. I bought hay to supplement what I have. Then I went to the farmers market to get some more of those wonderful tangerines. The woman didn't have any so I bought some navel oranges from her. The citrus here is wonderful.
Then it was off to Home Depot. I had to buy an aerator for the bathroom faucet that was driving me crazy. Water would splash everywhere..... now it's a nice even flow. :)
A few other things, then it was off to the healthy market so I could stock up on groceries. The total was around $200 but I'll be able to eat for over two weeks now. All organic of course. Actually, what made the bill so high is the purchase of probiotics and supplements that I was out of. They can be quite pricey, but I assure you, they're worth it. I truly believe it's one of the reasons I have no aches or pains at 56 years old. I'd rather pay now to feel and be healthy than pay doctors later.
After I got home and put away the groceries, I unloaded all the hay, gave the horses some, and then did my daily poop pick. I also picked up all that discarded hay that my horses ruined. (Grrr...)
It's makes the paddock look better too.
Last night I used hay nets for the first time and they did make a huge difference. Will and Lily actually had to eat ALL of the hay to empty the bag. They couldn't just pick out the stuff they like.
After the poop picking I chatted with my landlady and her daughter. My landlady is one of the people involved in making the Pa-Rally thing here in Florida happen. It takes the place of the old "Rendevous" the Parellis had. It should be a really fun thing and I know I'll meet so many people.
My husband and son will leave to go home next Saturday so I'll attend the Pa-Rally on Sunday and probably help to clean up on Monday.
After chatting I did more yard work (I got the front bed totally weeded and mulched), then put Will and Lily into their night-time paddock and called it a day.
It's funny.....not until I was putting the horses in for the evening did I realize that I didn't eat lunch today. Hmmm..... how in the heck did that happen!?? I'm surprised I didn't get hungry as I've been limiting the amount of food I eat anyway.
Strange.
I was really hungry for dinner though... :)
I also forgot to drink water today. I'm so bad about that, but I'm trying to get better. And I heard on TV that you can burn 500 more calories per week if you drink "cold" water. So that's what I'm gonna do from now on. :)
Going to bed early. My bath felt really good and I want to get up early so off to slumber-land for me.
After working out and drinking a shake this morning I got in my pickup and went into town. I had errands to run. I bought hay to supplement what I have. Then I went to the farmers market to get some more of those wonderful tangerines. The woman didn't have any so I bought some navel oranges from her. The citrus here is wonderful.
Then it was off to Home Depot. I had to buy an aerator for the bathroom faucet that was driving me crazy. Water would splash everywhere..... now it's a nice even flow. :)
A few other things, then it was off to the healthy market so I could stock up on groceries. The total was around $200 but I'll be able to eat for over two weeks now. All organic of course. Actually, what made the bill so high is the purchase of probiotics and supplements that I was out of. They can be quite pricey, but I assure you, they're worth it. I truly believe it's one of the reasons I have no aches or pains at 56 years old. I'd rather pay now to feel and be healthy than pay doctors later.
After I got home and put away the groceries, I unloaded all the hay, gave the horses some, and then did my daily poop pick. I also picked up all that discarded hay that my horses ruined. (Grrr...)
It's makes the paddock look better too.
Last night I used hay nets for the first time and they did make a huge difference. Will and Lily actually had to eat ALL of the hay to empty the bag. They couldn't just pick out the stuff they like.
After the poop picking I chatted with my landlady and her daughter. My landlady is one of the people involved in making the Pa-Rally thing here in Florida happen. It takes the place of the old "Rendevous" the Parellis had. It should be a really fun thing and I know I'll meet so many people.
My husband and son will leave to go home next Saturday so I'll attend the Pa-Rally on Sunday and probably help to clean up on Monday.
After chatting I did more yard work (I got the front bed totally weeded and mulched), then put Will and Lily into their night-time paddock and called it a day.
It's funny.....not until I was putting the horses in for the evening did I realize that I didn't eat lunch today. Hmmm..... how in the heck did that happen!?? I'm surprised I didn't get hungry as I've been limiting the amount of food I eat anyway.
Strange.
I was really hungry for dinner though... :)
I also forgot to drink water today. I'm so bad about that, but I'm trying to get better. And I heard on TV that you can burn 500 more calories per week if you drink "cold" water. So that's what I'm gonna do from now on. :)
Going to bed early. My bath felt really good and I want to get up early so off to slumber-land for me.
Thursday, February 9, 2012
I'm officially tired.
Well, as of tonight, I'm actually tired. I did just as much as I usually do but for some reason, I just want to be still and go to bed. Which I will do right after Gray's Anatomy.
Will and Lily have been wasting hay. Stepping and peeing on it instead of eating it. So tonight, before I put them in their night-time paddock, I rigged up hay nets. I tied them as high on the fence post as I could so that when they're empty they won't be dragging on the ground.
I still worry in case they paw, but I'm a worry wart anyway.
We'll see how it goes.
They're both losing weight, (me too, 12 pounds as of today),
and I'm a little worried that they're going to lose too much.
But when I check their hay supply in the middle of the day, they haven't eaten it all....they're out there trying to nibble of what little bit of grass there is.
So I figure that they're just being picky. If they get hungry darnit, they can finish their hay!
I spent the morning emptying out and cleaning my horse trailer...the dressing room part. (There's hay in the horse part.) It was a chore, took about an hour and a half. It's all ready in case my six-foot-four son wants a queen bed to sleep in instead of the smaller ones in my little mobile home.
After that I completely reorganized my tack stall. I got more stuff that I need in there now and it's tidy. Well, half of it is...the other half is junk that needs to go to the dump.
After lunch, I cleaned up the soiled hay left by my horses. Ugh.
Then I went to go buy gas for the John Deere.
After that I did yard work until almost dark.
Whew. I guess I know why I feel a little tired. :)
Only two and a half days and my husband and son will be here. Still have some floor cleaning and laundry to do in the house. Hope I can get to it.
I'm enjoying your comments everyone....thank you.
Off to watch my show, then hit the sack.
TaTa for now.
Will and Lily have been wasting hay. Stepping and peeing on it instead of eating it. So tonight, before I put them in their night-time paddock, I rigged up hay nets. I tied them as high on the fence post as I could so that when they're empty they won't be dragging on the ground.
I still worry in case they paw, but I'm a worry wart anyway.
We'll see how it goes.
They're both losing weight, (me too, 12 pounds as of today),
and I'm a little worried that they're going to lose too much.
But when I check their hay supply in the middle of the day, they haven't eaten it all....they're out there trying to nibble of what little bit of grass there is.
So I figure that they're just being picky. If they get hungry darnit, they can finish their hay!
I spent the morning emptying out and cleaning my horse trailer...the dressing room part. (There's hay in the horse part.) It was a chore, took about an hour and a half. It's all ready in case my six-foot-four son wants a queen bed to sleep in instead of the smaller ones in my little mobile home.
After that I completely reorganized my tack stall. I got more stuff that I need in there now and it's tidy. Well, half of it is...the other half is junk that needs to go to the dump.
After lunch, I cleaned up the soiled hay left by my horses. Ugh.
Then I went to go buy gas for the John Deere.
After that I did yard work until almost dark.
Whew. I guess I know why I feel a little tired. :)
Only two and a half days and my husband and son will be here. Still have some floor cleaning and laundry to do in the house. Hope I can get to it.
I'm enjoying your comments everyone....thank you.
Off to watch my show, then hit the sack.
TaTa for now.
Wednesday, February 8, 2012
A successful day.
A typical day... the weather is a little cooler and the high today was only around 72 but it was beautiful.
I had bills to pay this morning so after my workout and breakfast I got to it and got them posted and put into the mailbox before the mail lady got here. I always know when she comes because I can hear her car from a mile away...hehe. It's a really LOUD one!
Then I filled the cart with poop and emptied it into the bin. The landlady knew that I needed a gate for my yard so my husbands dog won't get out when they visit. Last week I took her to buy one so today we took the old gate off and put the new one on.
Trying to put the old gate down at my place wasn't quite so easy. With the tools I had I worked for about twenty minutes to get the old rusted nut off the screw that held the top bracket. I didn't get frustrated because I know better but dang that thing was really stuck so I had to give in and take the gate next door where I knew those guys were still working on that trailer home.
I felt really good because even though that guy had really big man tools...(okay don't let your mind go there!)....he couldn't get it off either!!!
We eventually used his electric grinder and sawed the screw in two. Then I hammered the bracket off and back on again in the correct spot while the guy drove away to go find a different screw to fit it.
Problem solved.
I poked a couple holes in my fingers trying to wire some fencing to the gate so the dog can't get through.
But I eventually got it all done. Checked off the list.
I played with Will and Lily of course. Lily was perfect today and when I tried something new, (lead by the hoof) she got it right away. On all four legs. And was happy about it.
Will was down right miffed about it compared to Lily. I broke it down into the tiniest pieces and just had to just let him figure it out. It took forever. At first he tried kicking. When that didn't work, he kept swinging his hind end around. When that didn't work, he just held his ground and that didn't work either. FINALLY, he put weight on that back foot. I let go and told him he was right. He licked and chewed and I just let him stand there. I think he was sulking that he couldn't win the game. After we stood there for a little while and he put his head down seemingly interested in the grass, I tried again. He went back to kicking a little bit...then moving again, but not very much. He moved back and I let the pressure go. Same thing.....he seemed to be sulking. We had to do this five times. After he licked and chewed I tried again. Finally he went right back and I praised him like crazy and we ended the session.
Who knows what he'll be like tomorrow, but I took him to a big green grassy area and let him graze so he was happy.
After I played with the horses I did yard work down at my little mobile home. The new mulch I put in today looks so much better than the weeds. :)
Having the wi-fi working here in the house is awesome isn't it?!!!
Off to watch Modern Family before I turn in.
I had bills to pay this morning so after my workout and breakfast I got to it and got them posted and put into the mailbox before the mail lady got here. I always know when she comes because I can hear her car from a mile away...hehe. It's a really LOUD one!
Then I filled the cart with poop and emptied it into the bin. The landlady knew that I needed a gate for my yard so my husbands dog won't get out when they visit. Last week I took her to buy one so today we took the old gate off and put the new one on.
Trying to put the old gate down at my place wasn't quite so easy. With the tools I had I worked for about twenty minutes to get the old rusted nut off the screw that held the top bracket. I didn't get frustrated because I know better but dang that thing was really stuck so I had to give in and take the gate next door where I knew those guys were still working on that trailer home.
I felt really good because even though that guy had really big man tools...(okay don't let your mind go there!)....he couldn't get it off either!!!
We eventually used his electric grinder and sawed the screw in two. Then I hammered the bracket off and back on again in the correct spot while the guy drove away to go find a different screw to fit it.
Problem solved.
I poked a couple holes in my fingers trying to wire some fencing to the gate so the dog can't get through.
But I eventually got it all done. Checked off the list.
I played with Will and Lily of course. Lily was perfect today and when I tried something new, (lead by the hoof) she got it right away. On all four legs. And was happy about it.
Will was down right miffed about it compared to Lily. I broke it down into the tiniest pieces and just had to just let him figure it out. It took forever. At first he tried kicking. When that didn't work, he kept swinging his hind end around. When that didn't work, he just held his ground and that didn't work either. FINALLY, he put weight on that back foot. I let go and told him he was right. He licked and chewed and I just let him stand there. I think he was sulking that he couldn't win the game. After we stood there for a little while and he put his head down seemingly interested in the grass, I tried again. He went back to kicking a little bit...then moving again, but not very much. He moved back and I let the pressure go. Same thing.....he seemed to be sulking. We had to do this five times. After he licked and chewed I tried again. Finally he went right back and I praised him like crazy and we ended the session.
Who knows what he'll be like tomorrow, but I took him to a big green grassy area and let him graze so he was happy.
After I played with the horses I did yard work down at my little mobile home. The new mulch I put in today looks so much better than the weeds. :)
Having the wi-fi working here in the house is awesome isn't it?!!!
Off to watch Modern Family before I turn in.
Tuesday, February 7, 2012
Rush, Rush, Rush!
Oh why did I make my goals so high, there's so much to get done before my husband visits. This place is a nice place but it just needed a lot of tender care and now I want to do EVERYTHING so my husband will see how nice it is and maybe want to stay with me. They'll be here on Sunday and I have so very much to do.
For instance, I'm still working on the house. I got the outside all pressure washed and the house is white again. Looks totally awesome now. I've started on the yard and that will take a while. There's all kinds of small limbs, twigs and buried around all that is little bits of trash and stuff that you don't see until you're right up on it.
I had mountains of poop to pick up yesterday because the tire on the dump cart was flat for a couple of days. I took both tires off and took them to go get repaired yesterday. All the while I was waiting for the nice young man to do that, I kept thinking..."Here I am wasting time when I could be working."
I know, I know,..how silly of me.
Will and Lily are looking great! Finally down to regular horse size instead of being so fat. I've lost weight too....ten pounds.
Will can canter around me in both directions and be happy about it. That's awesome.
But what's REALLY awesome is what happened on Saturday.
Jim Crew came and trimmed my horses. For the last four years I've watched Will's hooves and legs bow and him start winging. My own barefoot trimmer is a good guy, but nothing he did made a difference. He kept saying that it's just the way that Will moves.
After Jim trimmed Will, the difference was astounding! Will would actually stand with his leg straighter! And he's had no pain or reaction from the trim whatsoever. I literally almost cried. Two more trims and Will will have straight legs and shoulders again. I'm so very happy.
I want to have Jim come to Virginia this summer to do a clinic. I think everyone should know about this stuff!
And the icing on the cake is that he plays golf. He plays at least twice a week, so we've made plans to play together.
So not only will my horsemanship improve this winter...so will my golf game!
Last Saturday I scoped out the golf course where the window guy gave me rounds of golf. Turns out he's the head pro there. So we've got tee times set for Valentines Day. :)
Speaking of Valentines Day, while I was in town I also got a bikini wax and facial. (Both very much needed.) I then bought Valentine cards and chocolates for my family. So I'm all ready!
On Sunday I replaced a broken window pane on the mobile, cleaned the bedroom and spent an hour removing old cracked caulking from the bathroom tub. I caulked it with new stuff the next day.
Today, since it's raining, I'm cleaning and scrubbing the bathroom top to bottom. I did the other bathroom right after I got here. Now, they're both good to go. I also went to town for groceries, and bought some mulch for the weedy flower beds. (I have to weed them first I know.)
Tomorrow, I'm going to build a drag to smooth the sand on the playground. Since it's rained it won't be dusty when I do it. Yay.
I'll also work again on the yard until I "get er done".
I do want to mention something else that was so wonderful for me.
Yesterday was a beautiful day. I'd worked pretty hard and hadn't spent any undemanding time with the horses since I've been here. I got Will first and gave him a good grooming. He's losing hair so fast. It's also itching and he's rubbing himself a little too much. I put some cream on the places where he rubbed himself.
Then we just took a walk... wherever he wanted to go and graze. I sat in the grass and we just enjoyed each other's company.
After an hour it was Lily's turn. I put Will in the playground and got Lily in the barn to groom her. Will didn't like that he couldn't see her and went running up and down like a loon. Because he doesn't ever get really right brained I just let him get the exercise. Lily could care less.
After I groomed her, we just strolled along too. She wanted to eat in one place. I was standing beside zone three. She's short enough that I could lean my weight on her back. And I just left it there. I was so very comfortable. There was a very slight breeze kissing my face and she smelled so good. Her hair is so soft. (This stuff I bought to wash them with is really great.)
Anyway, I was in heaven and it so very much reminded me of when I was a kid. This is exactly what I'd do. I realized that there was no one there to watch me, or come bother me, or tell me what to do. I had all the time in the world and you just can't imagine how much it meant to me. I felt like crying but I was too happy.
This is what I hoped it would be like. My dream is coming true. I do love my husband so much but somehow, deep inside me, I knew I had to get away and be by myself somewhere. Here, in my own little three month world, I can focus on just the here and now, not anything else. It's what my mind and body needed. And my horses needed it too of course....whether they thought so or not. Hehe.
Lily is turning out to be so much more sensitive than I once thought. Since I've been doing so much more with her than I ever have, she's revealing herself to me. I "WAIT" for her all the time and she just can't believe it. The bracing is going away little by little and the licking and chewing is happening faster and faster.
Oh my, look how I've rambled. Better get back to work.
I loved all your comments. Wish there was a way I could respond to you individually.
Til next time... take care.
P.S. You'll never guess where I'm writing to you... in my mobile home! Yep, somehow I'm picking up the landlady's signal! Shhhh...... don't tell. :) And here I thought it couldn't get any better...as long as this lasts I'll for sure post more often.
For instance, I'm still working on the house. I got the outside all pressure washed and the house is white again. Looks totally awesome now. I've started on the yard and that will take a while. There's all kinds of small limbs, twigs and buried around all that is little bits of trash and stuff that you don't see until you're right up on it.
I had mountains of poop to pick up yesterday because the tire on the dump cart was flat for a couple of days. I took both tires off and took them to go get repaired yesterday. All the while I was waiting for the nice young man to do that, I kept thinking..."Here I am wasting time when I could be working."
I know, I know,..how silly of me.
Will and Lily are looking great! Finally down to regular horse size instead of being so fat. I've lost weight too....ten pounds.
Will can canter around me in both directions and be happy about it. That's awesome.
But what's REALLY awesome is what happened on Saturday.
Jim Crew came and trimmed my horses. For the last four years I've watched Will's hooves and legs bow and him start winging. My own barefoot trimmer is a good guy, but nothing he did made a difference. He kept saying that it's just the way that Will moves.
After Jim trimmed Will, the difference was astounding! Will would actually stand with his leg straighter! And he's had no pain or reaction from the trim whatsoever. I literally almost cried. Two more trims and Will will have straight legs and shoulders again. I'm so very happy.
I want to have Jim come to Virginia this summer to do a clinic. I think everyone should know about this stuff!
And the icing on the cake is that he plays golf. He plays at least twice a week, so we've made plans to play together.
So not only will my horsemanship improve this winter...so will my golf game!
Last Saturday I scoped out the golf course where the window guy gave me rounds of golf. Turns out he's the head pro there. So we've got tee times set for Valentines Day. :)
Speaking of Valentines Day, while I was in town I also got a bikini wax and facial. (Both very much needed.) I then bought Valentine cards and chocolates for my family. So I'm all ready!
On Sunday I replaced a broken window pane on the mobile, cleaned the bedroom and spent an hour removing old cracked caulking from the bathroom tub. I caulked it with new stuff the next day.
Today, since it's raining, I'm cleaning and scrubbing the bathroom top to bottom. I did the other bathroom right after I got here. Now, they're both good to go. I also went to town for groceries, and bought some mulch for the weedy flower beds. (I have to weed them first I know.)
Tomorrow, I'm going to build a drag to smooth the sand on the playground. Since it's rained it won't be dusty when I do it. Yay.
I'll also work again on the yard until I "get er done".
I do want to mention something else that was so wonderful for me.
Yesterday was a beautiful day. I'd worked pretty hard and hadn't spent any undemanding time with the horses since I've been here. I got Will first and gave him a good grooming. He's losing hair so fast. It's also itching and he's rubbing himself a little too much. I put some cream on the places where he rubbed himself.
Then we just took a walk... wherever he wanted to go and graze. I sat in the grass and we just enjoyed each other's company.
After an hour it was Lily's turn. I put Will in the playground and got Lily in the barn to groom her. Will didn't like that he couldn't see her and went running up and down like a loon. Because he doesn't ever get really right brained I just let him get the exercise. Lily could care less.
After I groomed her, we just strolled along too. She wanted to eat in one place. I was standing beside zone three. She's short enough that I could lean my weight on her back. And I just left it there. I was so very comfortable. There was a very slight breeze kissing my face and she smelled so good. Her hair is so soft. (This stuff I bought to wash them with is really great.)
Anyway, I was in heaven and it so very much reminded me of when I was a kid. This is exactly what I'd do. I realized that there was no one there to watch me, or come bother me, or tell me what to do. I had all the time in the world and you just can't imagine how much it meant to me. I felt like crying but I was too happy.
This is what I hoped it would be like. My dream is coming true. I do love my husband so much but somehow, deep inside me, I knew I had to get away and be by myself somewhere. Here, in my own little three month world, I can focus on just the here and now, not anything else. It's what my mind and body needed. And my horses needed it too of course....whether they thought so or not. Hehe.
Lily is turning out to be so much more sensitive than I once thought. Since I've been doing so much more with her than I ever have, she's revealing herself to me. I "WAIT" for her all the time and she just can't believe it. The bracing is going away little by little and the licking and chewing is happening faster and faster.
Oh my, look how I've rambled. Better get back to work.
I loved all your comments. Wish there was a way I could respond to you individually.
Til next time... take care.
P.S. You'll never guess where I'm writing to you... in my mobile home! Yep, somehow I'm picking up the landlady's signal! Shhhh...... don't tell. :) And here I thought it couldn't get any better...as long as this lasts I'll for sure post more often.
Thursday, February 2, 2012
Escape artist!
As you know I was sitting on the porch yesterday evening trying to catch up on the computer. My landlady had just left for hand bell rehearsal when I heard a car....I thought she came back because she forgot something. But it was her daughter delivering some hay. I saw her put the car into
reverse and then went back to posting. I looked up again just in time to see Will slowly walking past the yard and her car!!!!!!! What the....!!!!!!!!
I left the computer and got out of the yard and to the entrance gate and got it closed before he discovered it. My landlady's horses ran up to the fence so Will was busy with them.
I went to the gate of his paddock to get his halter and I saw that his gate was closed. Closed????
I've pondered and pondered and can't figure out how he escaped. I'd noticed him itching his butt on the gate but if he'd jumped it, I'd have heard it. The gate only opens to the inside and there's a lot of sand I have to drag it through every time I open and shut it. And a post keeps it from being opened to the outside.
All I can think of is he must be magic.
Today was a work day and I'm pooped. I picked up a ton of manure out of the playground today. I'm making progress with that. It's looking better and better, and I'm gaining more and more room to play with the horses without rolling my ankles on hard poop.
After that I went to get gas for the JD, then proceeded to finish the pressure washing of my little house. My arms are in constant use when I do that and they were about to fall off when I finally got done hours later so I didn't play with the horses. I don't think I could've lifted a carrot stick.
I did some mowing and picked up some leaves and such and called it a day.
This gal's pooped....a shower is going to feel great.
I talked to Jim Crew, the guy from Healthy Stride today and he's going to come and trim my horses on Saturday if it's not raining.
I'm going to be very interested to hear what he has to say about my guys. Hope it doesn't rain or we'll have to reschedule.
Later gators.
reverse and then went back to posting. I looked up again just in time to see Will slowly walking past the yard and her car!!!!!!! What the....!!!!!!!!
I left the computer and got out of the yard and to the entrance gate and got it closed before he discovered it. My landlady's horses ran up to the fence so Will was busy with them.
I went to the gate of his paddock to get his halter and I saw that his gate was closed. Closed????
I've pondered and pondered and can't figure out how he escaped. I'd noticed him itching his butt on the gate but if he'd jumped it, I'd have heard it. The gate only opens to the inside and there's a lot of sand I have to drag it through every time I open and shut it. And a post keeps it from being opened to the outside.
All I can think of is he must be magic.
Today was a work day and I'm pooped. I picked up a ton of manure out of the playground today. I'm making progress with that. It's looking better and better, and I'm gaining more and more room to play with the horses without rolling my ankles on hard poop.
After that I went to get gas for the JD, then proceeded to finish the pressure washing of my little house. My arms are in constant use when I do that and they were about to fall off when I finally got done hours later so I didn't play with the horses. I don't think I could've lifted a carrot stick.
I did some mowing and picked up some leaves and such and called it a day.
This gal's pooped....a shower is going to feel great.
I talked to Jim Crew, the guy from Healthy Stride today and he's going to come and trim my horses on Saturday if it's not raining.
I'm going to be very interested to hear what he has to say about my guys. Hope it doesn't rain or we'll have to reschedule.
Later gators.
Wednesday, February 1, 2012
Poop, Poop, and more Poop.
Haha, the John Deere riding mower went back into the shop last Thursday and I've been without it until today. So I had all those days worth of manure to pick up.
This morning I used my truck to go pick up a gate and some salt for my landlady. She bought herself a new gate and is going to let me use the old bent one so I'll have a gate down there where my house is so my husbands dog won't be able to escape the yard.
Then I picked....and picked ... and picked. My arms are a little tired tonight.
But I think that's only because yesterday I scrubbed and pressure washed the siding on the outside of my little house. It was green and black and wow, what a difference. It sparkles now.
No horse time yesterday but today was great. Lily's circling game was a little broken, but not for long. She figured out that every time she broke gait or stopped she had to change direction and get outta Dodge. Pretty soon she was circling nice and calmly. Since I taught her to come get me on the pedestal I climbed aboard today after our play session. I, of course, tested the driving game first and all was well. I'm beginning to really love this little horse. (Although I really should sell her.)
Well, it's a beautiful evening as I sit on my landlady's porch typing away, but it's time to put the horses into their night-time paddock and go take a much needed shower.
Oh, I heard from my husband yesterday who is in southern Florida with his friend having a great time.
Nothing else to report. Gosh, I think I'm a boring person.
Maybe I should go back to the library and embarass myself again!
This morning I used my truck to go pick up a gate and some salt for my landlady. She bought herself a new gate and is going to let me use the old bent one so I'll have a gate down there where my house is so my husbands dog won't be able to escape the yard.
Then I picked....and picked ... and picked. My arms are a little tired tonight.
But I think that's only because yesterday I scrubbed and pressure washed the siding on the outside of my little house. It was green and black and wow, what a difference. It sparkles now.
No horse time yesterday but today was great. Lily's circling game was a little broken, but not for long. She figured out that every time she broke gait or stopped she had to change direction and get outta Dodge. Pretty soon she was circling nice and calmly. Since I taught her to come get me on the pedestal I climbed aboard today after our play session. I, of course, tested the driving game first and all was well. I'm beginning to really love this little horse. (Although I really should sell her.)
Well, it's a beautiful evening as I sit on my landlady's porch typing away, but it's time to put the horses into their night-time paddock and go take a much needed shower.
Oh, I heard from my husband yesterday who is in southern Florida with his friend having a great time.
Nothing else to report. Gosh, I think I'm a boring person.
Maybe I should go back to the library and embarass myself again!
Monday, January 30, 2012
Fantastic horse time!
Hi everyone. I didn't play with my horses over the weekend so when I took them out today I didn't expect much, but it was awesome!
Will learns so darn fast! I taught him to spin today. :)
He got it on the third try! I'm not kidding...the look on his face on try three was "Oh, that's what you want." The paddock we play in is large, (like three arenas put together), so I very carefully tried liberty with him today. OMG, it was so incredible. He never left me even once.
And Lily learned how to come put her side up to me so I can mount. I didn't mount of course but now she knows.
Awesome day.
You know what else is awesome?..... RV's. :)
My landlady and I spent over 5 hours at the camping and RV show yesterday. I learned a ton about them and met some really nice people. I put a fold up camper in place in less than 30 seconds all by myself with no strain at all....literally 30 seconds! These things are awsome and it makes me want one. Except I need one hooked to a horse compartment. Hehe.
Maybe someday.
It cooled off a little here and it was nippy this morning. It doesn't bother me though because by 9:00 it's starting to warm up beautifully. Besides, our weather is going back to really warm this week so no worries.
The riding lawn mower I use to get work done has been in the shop since Thursday so I picked manure in a bucket and rolling cart today. It wasn't so easy and I'm a little tired.
Also it was a little more difficult doing my exercise video this morning. I just felt tired. Hmmmm....I don't know what's going on with that.
I guess these weekends are just screwing up my mojo. :)
The reason I'm on the computer on a Monday is because I'm sitting on the porch of my landladys house. The signal isn't great but it's okay. Maybe I can post more often now.
Her little Dalmation, Annie, keeps coming over to check me out. She's really cute.
Well, Will is looking over the fence at me and telling me it's time to go into the night-time paddock. He knows it's dinner time. Such a smart boy.
Will learns so darn fast! I taught him to spin today. :)
He got it on the third try! I'm not kidding...the look on his face on try three was "Oh, that's what you want." The paddock we play in is large, (like three arenas put together), so I very carefully tried liberty with him today. OMG, it was so incredible. He never left me even once.
And Lily learned how to come put her side up to me so I can mount. I didn't mount of course but now she knows.
Awesome day.
You know what else is awesome?..... RV's. :)
My landlady and I spent over 5 hours at the camping and RV show yesterday. I learned a ton about them and met some really nice people. I put a fold up camper in place in less than 30 seconds all by myself with no strain at all....literally 30 seconds! These things are awsome and it makes me want one. Except I need one hooked to a horse compartment. Hehe.
Maybe someday.
It cooled off a little here and it was nippy this morning. It doesn't bother me though because by 9:00 it's starting to warm up beautifully. Besides, our weather is going back to really warm this week so no worries.
The riding lawn mower I use to get work done has been in the shop since Thursday so I picked manure in a bucket and rolling cart today. It wasn't so easy and I'm a little tired.
Also it was a little more difficult doing my exercise video this morning. I just felt tired. Hmmmm....I don't know what's going on with that.
I guess these weekends are just screwing up my mojo. :)
The reason I'm on the computer on a Monday is because I'm sitting on the porch of my landladys house. The signal isn't great but it's okay. Maybe I can post more often now.
Her little Dalmation, Annie, keeps coming over to check me out. She's really cute.
Well, Will is looking over the fence at me and telling me it's time to go into the night-time paddock. He knows it's dinner time. Such a smart boy.
Saturday, January 28, 2012
My hands look like a man's!
No kidding, they really do. I've been working very hard and it's taking a toll on my ravishing beauty! Hehe, kidding of course.
The good news is that I'm losing weight, I can tell by my clothes. So I've got to keep it up.
I'm sorry it's been so long since my last post...a whole week!
The time is flying by! There's still a lot to do before my son and husband visit next month, but I'm finally beginning to feel at home.
While my landlady was away in California I worked to make her large front yard look better. Picking up sticks and debris, raking leaves, etc... I've made a huge pile behind the barn, (so people can't see all the junk when they drive in), and will be taking a huge load to the county dump pretty soon.
The washing machine problem is over. Instead of making my landlady pay for a repair person I told her it would be cheaper to get one from craigslist. And I was right. I talked some people into selling me their machine for $50.
I asked her son to go help me get it and we got it in the house and it works fine. Yay! (I've been doing laundry today.) The people I bought it from were astonished that I could lift it into my truck. :)
A few days ago, it rained and I decided to work inside the house. It took one full day to take the stove apart, scrub it clean and put it back together. It now looks new. And boy, I sure feel better about cooking on it.
Some of my friends know I'm a clean freak.
Yesterday was spent scrubbing paint and grime off of the windows in the kitchen and dining room...including the storm windows on the outside. The blinds were sticky and grimy from years of grease I guess so I gave those things a bath in the bath tub. I had to sponge each blind individually but it was worth it because they look like new as well. The windows sparkle when I look out and it makes me smile.
Will and Lily are doing so great. They're losing weight and looking like horses again. I brought out the pedestal the other day and I can't get them off the thing! I got Lily to put all four feet up on it, if only for a few seconds.
Will is cantering on the 22 and 45 and keeping it! I only let him go about four laps though and then praise the hell out of him.
He learns so fast that boy! He's really acting more like an extrovert right now. I'm loving that!
I think the saddle's coming out in the next few days. :)
I'll have them wear the saddle for over a week before ever mounting up. It will just become part of their daily routine.
I continue to faithfully do my exercise videos and I'm feeling stronger.
I'm so sorry I can't reply to your responses to my posts. I don't see any way to respond, but please know that I always look forward to reading them and enjoy them very much.
I just saw on the TV while I was eating lunch today that there's so much more to do in Orlando beside the normal Disney World etc. My son, husband, and I may need to check that out while they're here.
Oh! That reminds me....
A couple of days ago I went next door because I saw a worker's truck parked outside another mobile home. Since I wanted some tips on how a mobile home works, (you know, windows and such), I decided to go ask.
The people there were very friendly and the worker guy had brought along his brother-in-law who was deemed to be THE expert on windows and doors so he volunteered to go over to my mobile with me to give me some tips on how to repair my broken window.
Turns out he's a big-wig over at one of the golf clubs and gave me his business card.
On the back of the card he wrote....
Good for 4 - 18's with cart. Val.
How cool is that! We'll get four rounds of golf at his club, that's so exciting! Golf clubs are busy places around here during the winter.
Anyway, I got a two-fer. Lucky me.
The next time I get to report here I hope I can tell you that I've got the siding on my little mobile home scrubbed down and the yard all raked of leaves and twigs, AND the weeds pulled. AND that Lily will be better at not bracing against the pressure on her nose.
Til then. TaTa.
The good news is that I'm losing weight, I can tell by my clothes. So I've got to keep it up.
I'm sorry it's been so long since my last post...a whole week!
The time is flying by! There's still a lot to do before my son and husband visit next month, but I'm finally beginning to feel at home.
While my landlady was away in California I worked to make her large front yard look better. Picking up sticks and debris, raking leaves, etc... I've made a huge pile behind the barn, (so people can't see all the junk when they drive in), and will be taking a huge load to the county dump pretty soon.
The washing machine problem is over. Instead of making my landlady pay for a repair person I told her it would be cheaper to get one from craigslist. And I was right. I talked some people into selling me their machine for $50.
I asked her son to go help me get it and we got it in the house and it works fine. Yay! (I've been doing laundry today.) The people I bought it from were astonished that I could lift it into my truck. :)
A few days ago, it rained and I decided to work inside the house. It took one full day to take the stove apart, scrub it clean and put it back together. It now looks new. And boy, I sure feel better about cooking on it.
Some of my friends know I'm a clean freak.
Yesterday was spent scrubbing paint and grime off of the windows in the kitchen and dining room...including the storm windows on the outside. The blinds were sticky and grimy from years of grease I guess so I gave those things a bath in the bath tub. I had to sponge each blind individually but it was worth it because they look like new as well. The windows sparkle when I look out and it makes me smile.
Will and Lily are doing so great. They're losing weight and looking like horses again. I brought out the pedestal the other day and I can't get them off the thing! I got Lily to put all four feet up on it, if only for a few seconds.
Will is cantering on the 22 and 45 and keeping it! I only let him go about four laps though and then praise the hell out of him.
He learns so fast that boy! He's really acting more like an extrovert right now. I'm loving that!
I think the saddle's coming out in the next few days. :)
I'll have them wear the saddle for over a week before ever mounting up. It will just become part of their daily routine.
I continue to faithfully do my exercise videos and I'm feeling stronger.
I'm so sorry I can't reply to your responses to my posts. I don't see any way to respond, but please know that I always look forward to reading them and enjoy them very much.
I just saw on the TV while I was eating lunch today that there's so much more to do in Orlando beside the normal Disney World etc. My son, husband, and I may need to check that out while they're here.
Oh! That reminds me....
A couple of days ago I went next door because I saw a worker's truck parked outside another mobile home. Since I wanted some tips on how a mobile home works, (you know, windows and such), I decided to go ask.
The people there were very friendly and the worker guy had brought along his brother-in-law who was deemed to be THE expert on windows and doors so he volunteered to go over to my mobile with me to give me some tips on how to repair my broken window.
Turns out he's a big-wig over at one of the golf clubs and gave me his business card.
On the back of the card he wrote....
Good for 4 - 18's with cart. Val.
How cool is that! We'll get four rounds of golf at his club, that's so exciting! Golf clubs are busy places around here during the winter.
Anyway, I got a two-fer. Lucky me.
The next time I get to report here I hope I can tell you that I've got the siding on my little mobile home scrubbed down and the yard all raked of leaves and twigs, AND the weeds pulled. AND that Lily will be better at not bracing against the pressure on her nose.
Til then. TaTa.
Saturday, January 21, 2012
Lovin it!
Oh my gosh, the weather is everything I dreamed it would be...in the mid seventies all this week! I had to buy some sun screen. :)
I missed getting to the library this past Thursday as I was working on a project. I wanted to finish it and didn't have enough time to get there and post before they closed.
I've been working very hard this week on this property...it's beginning to look better. I wish I had a dime for every leaf I've raked up and I've got loads more to go. And twigs.....millions of little twigs and limbs. Oh well, it's making me lose weight. I don't have a set of scales so I don't know how much yet but my clothes are more loose.
This past Wednesday it rained all day, so I took that opportunity to drive into Ocala for some shopping. The items I needed for the house were many and I figured I'd have to go to Walmart and grab them all. Not so. I passed by a very large "Goodwill" store and stopped in. Wow, I got most of what I needed in there and it was so cheap! Two big bags of stuff for less than $50. The only thing I couldn't find that I had to get at Walmart was a timer for an outlet.
:)
I also drove around to see what was where and Ocala has everything a person could want. My last stop was the healthy market, (very much like the one at home) and I stocked up on more food.
I've been faithful with my exercising. On Mondays, Wednesdays, and Fridays I get up, go outside to feed, then head back in to do my "Buns of Steel" DVD. Then breakfast and out the door again to go do horse time.
Tuesdays, Thursdays and Saturdays I do my Ab workout DVD. I do feel stronger, but can't get all the way through the BOS DVD yet. I'm trying.
Will and Lily are doing very well. Will was full of spit and vinegar today. He's so funny. He's doing so well I have to come up with some more things for him to learn fast. :)
Lily is my shrinking violet who doesn't want to be. I think it pisses her off to be unconfident. She'll snark at me when asked to do something, but I'm giving her plenty of time when she does it well and comes in to me. This has proven to be very effective. We have to stand there for quite a while sometimes, but it's getting better every day and she's licking and chewing a little faster than before.
My husband sends me a packet each week containing the newpaper from home, my "Chronicle of the Horse" magazine, and any mail that's come in for me. I keep hoping he'll put a love note in there for me one of these times but it hasn't happened yet.
He did report that my younger son now has a girl he's dating!
This is HUGE news! The kid will be 27 this year....it's about time! :)
While I was at the Goodwill store I stocked up on some cheap CD's. Now I'll have music to clean house and do laundry by today.
Oh, speaking of laundry...the washing machine in the house where I am doesn't let any cold water in. It's a gigantic pain in the ass. I have to fill pitchers of water at the sink then poor it into the machine...it takes forever! I'm looking on craigslist to see if I can find a really cheap one out there. If we called a service man it would be over $100 I'm sure of it. The landlady doesn't want to spend much. I don't blame her.
I also need a 12 foot farm gate with wire on it so my husbands dog can't get out of the yard when they come to visit. I'm even looking for a dog house so she'll feel secure.
My husband will want to let her in the house, but I won't let him.
I talked to one of the 3-star instructors that's down here for the winter and she and I have plans to have dinner together. She's been living in her horse trailer so a home cooked meal would make her feel really good I bet. I'll try to get more work done on this place before I invite her. It'll take me another week or so to have the place where I think it's presentable for company.
Okay, I'm off to enjoy my weekend. After all the hard work this week, and getting the cleaning done today, it'll be nice to relax tomorrow. I think I'll listen to the Parelli DVD's that came in December. I haven't had a chance to do that yet.
I missed getting to the library this past Thursday as I was working on a project. I wanted to finish it and didn't have enough time to get there and post before they closed.
I've been working very hard this week on this property...it's beginning to look better. I wish I had a dime for every leaf I've raked up and I've got loads more to go. And twigs.....millions of little twigs and limbs. Oh well, it's making me lose weight. I don't have a set of scales so I don't know how much yet but my clothes are more loose.
This past Wednesday it rained all day, so I took that opportunity to drive into Ocala for some shopping. The items I needed for the house were many and I figured I'd have to go to Walmart and grab them all. Not so. I passed by a very large "Goodwill" store and stopped in. Wow, I got most of what I needed in there and it was so cheap! Two big bags of stuff for less than $50. The only thing I couldn't find that I had to get at Walmart was a timer for an outlet.
:)
I also drove around to see what was where and Ocala has everything a person could want. My last stop was the healthy market, (very much like the one at home) and I stocked up on more food.
I've been faithful with my exercising. On Mondays, Wednesdays, and Fridays I get up, go outside to feed, then head back in to do my "Buns of Steel" DVD. Then breakfast and out the door again to go do horse time.
Tuesdays, Thursdays and Saturdays I do my Ab workout DVD. I do feel stronger, but can't get all the way through the BOS DVD yet. I'm trying.
Will and Lily are doing very well. Will was full of spit and vinegar today. He's so funny. He's doing so well I have to come up with some more things for him to learn fast. :)
Lily is my shrinking violet who doesn't want to be. I think it pisses her off to be unconfident. She'll snark at me when asked to do something, but I'm giving her plenty of time when she does it well and comes in to me. This has proven to be very effective. We have to stand there for quite a while sometimes, but it's getting better every day and she's licking and chewing a little faster than before.
My husband sends me a packet each week containing the newpaper from home, my "Chronicle of the Horse" magazine, and any mail that's come in for me. I keep hoping he'll put a love note in there for me one of these times but it hasn't happened yet.
He did report that my younger son now has a girl he's dating!
This is HUGE news! The kid will be 27 this year....it's about time! :)
While I was at the Goodwill store I stocked up on some cheap CD's. Now I'll have music to clean house and do laundry by today.
Oh, speaking of laundry...the washing machine in the house where I am doesn't let any cold water in. It's a gigantic pain in the ass. I have to fill pitchers of water at the sink then poor it into the machine...it takes forever! I'm looking on craigslist to see if I can find a really cheap one out there. If we called a service man it would be over $100 I'm sure of it. The landlady doesn't want to spend much. I don't blame her.
I also need a 12 foot farm gate with wire on it so my husbands dog can't get out of the yard when they come to visit. I'm even looking for a dog house so she'll feel secure.
My husband will want to let her in the house, but I won't let him.
I talked to one of the 3-star instructors that's down here for the winter and she and I have plans to have dinner together. She's been living in her horse trailer so a home cooked meal would make her feel really good I bet. I'll try to get more work done on this place before I invite her. It'll take me another week or so to have the place where I think it's presentable for company.
Okay, I'm off to enjoy my weekend. After all the hard work this week, and getting the cleaning done today, it'll be nice to relax tomorrow. I think I'll listen to the Parelli DVD's that came in December. I haven't had a chance to do that yet.
Tuesday, January 17, 2012
The program has begun.
Hi everybody.
A funny thing happened, well, not so funny, on Saturday after I'd posted here. A member of another forum I belong to had posted a website where a woman was recounting how she had tried to explain sex to her eight year old daughter. I was trying to catch up a few pages back because I hadn't been to this forum in some time.
I don't own earphones and the library was busy with people studying and being very quiet. So I turned the volume down as low as it could go without being off and put my arm over the speaker and layed my head near. Nobody could here so I didn't think I would bother anyone.
Toward the end of the video I must've hit a button or something because the computer's volume came very much back on, and at the loudest setting! And of course it happened as the woman was using very sexual words! I was absolutely mortified as I tried like mad to find a key, ANY KEY that would shut it off! I couldn't do it! It just kept on screaming to everyone in the place that I was listening to some kind of porn!!!! OMG, I was jerking the cord out, trying to turn it over to pull the battery out, everything, to no avail!
Everyone was looking at me! I was trying to explain to everyone but I was so embarassed that my efforts to do so just weren't working.
So, let this be a lesson to all of you who don't own earphones for your computer..... GO BUY A PAIR!
Now the whole little town here thinks I'm a pervert!!!!!
I started playing with my horses yesterday. They got to go out on a 22 to explore their new environment. Will always does the same thing when taken to new places....he marches right out in the middle then stops dead with his head up looking. I waited.... and waited......and waited.....and waited, then he looked at me and said okay, let's go somewhere. And away he went. I was at zone 4 and he took me all over that place with not one ounce of unconfidence.
Lily, went out there a few yards at a time. Once she knew that I wasn't going to ask her to go anywhere, her confidence came up and she got brave and went and explored as well.
Today, after another exploration, I played with them on some figure eight, circling, and sideways. They act like their at home, so I'm very pleased.
I won't bore you with the other work I'm doing. Just clearing property and sprucing things up as I said. The riding lawn mower I use to pull the dump cart around started acting up so it got taken in to the John Deere place this morning. Hope I get that thing back soon as I can't do much work without it.
My landlady will be gone for a week to California. Her daughter will be around so my week will be a normal one.
Oh, and it was 80 degrees today. :) This is just awesome. I'm so very glad I'm here. When I think of the cold at home, I just laugh out loud I'm so happy. :)
A funny thing happened, well, not so funny, on Saturday after I'd posted here. A member of another forum I belong to had posted a website where a woman was recounting how she had tried to explain sex to her eight year old daughter. I was trying to catch up a few pages back because I hadn't been to this forum in some time.
I don't own earphones and the library was busy with people studying and being very quiet. So I turned the volume down as low as it could go without being off and put my arm over the speaker and layed my head near. Nobody could here so I didn't think I would bother anyone.
Toward the end of the video I must've hit a button or something because the computer's volume came very much back on, and at the loudest setting! And of course it happened as the woman was using very sexual words! I was absolutely mortified as I tried like mad to find a key, ANY KEY that would shut it off! I couldn't do it! It just kept on screaming to everyone in the place that I was listening to some kind of porn!!!! OMG, I was jerking the cord out, trying to turn it over to pull the battery out, everything, to no avail!
Everyone was looking at me! I was trying to explain to everyone but I was so embarassed that my efforts to do so just weren't working.
So, let this be a lesson to all of you who don't own earphones for your computer..... GO BUY A PAIR!
Now the whole little town here thinks I'm a pervert!!!!!
I started playing with my horses yesterday. They got to go out on a 22 to explore their new environment. Will always does the same thing when taken to new places....he marches right out in the middle then stops dead with his head up looking. I waited.... and waited......and waited.....and waited, then he looked at me and said okay, let's go somewhere. And away he went. I was at zone 4 and he took me all over that place with not one ounce of unconfidence.
Lily, went out there a few yards at a time. Once she knew that I wasn't going to ask her to go anywhere, her confidence came up and she got brave and went and explored as well.
Today, after another exploration, I played with them on some figure eight, circling, and sideways. They act like their at home, so I'm very pleased.
I won't bore you with the other work I'm doing. Just clearing property and sprucing things up as I said. The riding lawn mower I use to pull the dump cart around started acting up so it got taken in to the John Deere place this morning. Hope I get that thing back soon as I can't do much work without it.
My landlady will be gone for a week to California. Her daughter will be around so my week will be a normal one.
Oh, and it was 80 degrees today. :) This is just awesome. I'm so very glad I'm here. When I think of the cold at home, I just laugh out loud I'm so happy. :)
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